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[–] [email protected] 33 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I’ve been many guys their first gf or first person they dated. It mostly comes down to having a bad self image and terrible tactics when approaching women. After they dated me they were able to date more women because I think I learned them how to behave around them and they probably just gained more confidence because they have more experience.

I take some pride into having turned awkward/incelish men into more normal functioning persons in society.

I’m over it now though, so someone else should take over.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Never!! We've all been happy to let you do it

[–] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago

Can you even call yourself a socialist if you are profiting off of the labor of the women who dated your men before you, and not putting in the work yourself?

Tbh I had a great time dating those guys, but I want something more serious now so I became a bit (a lot) more picky.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I’m over it now though

why? tired of that kind of people?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

sincere question: have you ever raised/ trained a puppy? it can be rewarding to teach another creature to act normal & not piss everywhere, but it gets old eventually