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[-] FoundTheVegan@kbin.social 28 points 2 years ago

Sexual frustration comes from mysgonstic talking points that women, rightfully, keep their distance from. Why would I want to sleep with someone who is demeaning and insulting to me? 😂

[-] clearedtoland@lemmy.world 36 points 2 years ago

Maybe not you but someone out there might. Age has taught me the world takes all types.

Contrary to the incel narrative, the study found that extreme misogynistic views were driven by a psychology of dominance and status-seeking, which correlated with having many sexual partners.

That’s the real problem. They’re not necessarily sexually frustrated, that’s only a piece of it. It’s a distortion of their value and self-esteem, projected onto women. “If I matter, women should sleep with me.”

[-] xuxebiko@kbin.social 14 points 2 years ago

psychology of dominance and status-seeking = entitled

[-] clearedtoland@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Concise and accurate. Which is odd to me because I’d think that’s an Alpha Bro but apparently it’s a Chad trait.

[-] xuxebiko@kbin.social 6 points 2 years ago

it's an abuser's trait. Lundy Brancroft taught me that in his book 'Why does he do that?'

[-] TheWoozy@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

I would have gone with pathetically desperate rather than entitled, but close enough.

[-] Drivebyhaiku@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I think they project it anywhere other than themselves to be honest. I lurked their hideouts for a bit out of curiosity and they seem to place a lot of their hate onto other men too. The whole vibe of the places is to whinge about the success of others (who are doing it wrong by not treating women like shit like they deserve because women having standards at all is wrong somehow) while also reinforcing amongst themselves that whatever is wrong with them cannot be changed, improved, repaired or fixed and any attempt to do so is to be attacked for trying to become one of those men who are doing it "wrong and tgus deserve scorn.

Successful relationships or even short term sexual liasons with women do not give them value in their micro societies. It causes them to lose status. They want a very particular kind of completely unchallengable dominance based on their intrinsic entitlement and any compromise on that can mean exile from the places they go for comfort... It's a death cult. Flat out they want people to abandon hope forever and wallow in their worst qualities and misery until they no longer feel any point in living.

[-] MasterBlaster@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

Interestingly, that is the same logic MGTOW have for not wanting women in their lives. Just replace mysogeny with misandry in the assertion.

[-] Nataratata@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

But that's not the topic? I wish MGTOW would just go their own way already instead of pestering everyone with their bullshit.

[-] MasterBlaster@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Is MIGTOW not widely considered a red pill community? Who are they pestering? Wouldn't that mean they aren't going their own way?

[-] blindbunny@lemmy.ml -3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

It also comes from not being able to communicate to a potential partner how you would like to climax. Likely out of embarrassment or shame.

Also you don't have to do shit for anyone that insults you.

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