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Gotta love the footies. They're harmless and locked in. At the rabbit hole that is sexual fetishes, they just hang around the entrance... looking down.
I don't think about feet at all, until a story like this pops up.
You perfectly summed up footies, normies love to bug them for the weirdness but honestly, pretty wholesome all told.
They are not all wholesome. There are bad actors.
Some Non-Consensual Examples:
https://youtube.com/watch?v=NI_2xKI8hk4
https://youtube.com/watch?v=YaU81ryR8kY
https://youtube.com/watch?v=FUuyoQqV9JE
I mean, I'm comfortable considering the folk you're citing outliers. They may all be outlying the same creepy way, but they're not part of our distribution curve dammit
I think we must have had very different experiences in life. I think the only fetish I ever hear about in the news in a 'bad way' is feet.
In the past two or three decades, I want to say there have been at least one or two stories per year about some cop in the area letting people off of tickets if they'll let the officer lick their feet. We have incredibly large furry conventions, anime conventions, tattoo conventions, reptile owner conventions, and probably more that touch on various kinks and fetishes, but you never hear about any of those sexual shenanigans in the news... so feet fetish folks finding themselves featured on frontline feeds frequently from the news is quite the contrast.
I think the story is more about the damn skeezy cop(s?) than their specific kinks tho
Right, because its the mainstream acceptable stand-in for "weird fetishes" and it fits in the mainstream because its NOT scary.
Letting people off the hook in exchange for foot stuff an entirely different problem. I think the focus misplaced.
Yeah, that's an ACAB problem more than a footsie problem. This is a mathematical function that always resolve to the same constant : let police(x) a function that describes an action (x) that is done by multiple officers over many iterations, and we can say that police(x)= bastardry
When i was in college, there were reports of people, who took their shoes off at the library while studying for midterms, putting their foot back in to find them filled with jizz.
It happened enough we got a campus wide email that said to not take your shoes off in public spaces lol
Where do you live where cops licking feet regularly makes the news??
Nice try, fbi!
Dammit they're onto me. Time for a new account!
What does a ticket cost? I'd let any1 lick my smelly feet for 20 bucks.
I haven't gotten a ticket in years, but I think the absolute cheapest tickets are over $100, speeding will be somewhere between $180-300 depending on how much over you were going, and the really big boys like repeated no insurance or passing school busses can climb to $500-1000.
I had a speeding ticket I couldn't talk my way out of, what got dismissed because it was for 2 over the speed limit. Also dismissed tickets for not having insurance (apparently the card the insurance company sends you is not proof of insurance in Texas, at least according to this shitass I dealt with).
Even though the tickets were dismissed, I still had to pay court fees. Which were for twice what the tickets were.
Hence the saying, you can beat the charge but you can't beat the ride.
Well, there was Rainfurrest, which was so bad that I know the name off the top of my head without even being in the furry scene. From what I've heard it was an outlier organized by people who'd been banned from other conventions so by no means typical.
But it's not like I've never heard of a furry convention going wrong.
That's uh...that's wild. I suppose it's true though, you dig deep enough into just about anything and depravity will surface one way or another.
Oh yeah there are a ton of bdsm conventions, major cities will often have multiple a year. And there are issues and drama for certain, but we generally try to police our own and our problems tend towards being that well established members of the community who do a lot sometimes utilize the trust and respect they have to be predatory, especially to new people, just like every other community.
Foot fetishists' misbehavior is the stuff like you described, though they're really outshone in awfulness by body type fetishists, who do the same stuff and so much more
And tbh I think foot fetishists' big problem is their misbehavior comes from the shame and awkwardness they have about it. And i bet you can find similar stories with far more common body part fetishes like breasts and butts. Like, I'm a breast fetishist for sure and don't get the appeal of feet, but I know some folks who are all about feet and are totally respectful people and I know plenty of folks who can't act properly about tits.
Not wholesome
Just not weird in a way interesting enough
I don't yuk anyone's yum except for furries. That shit is weird
On the one hand, I agree, furries don't make a lot of sense.
On the other hand, I'd totally fuck a dragon. Assuming we could figure out the logistics.
Donkey?
You'll be figuring out the logistics all night.
Furries suddenly made a lot of sense to me when someone told me a lot of them are surgeons.
I think I'd find regular Humans pretty repulsive after cutting them open and watching them die and cutting out massive tumours and shit.
I've never met a furry that's a surgeon. Most of us seem to be in IT and logistics.
Like animals are less repulsive after cut open
Yeah, but human and animal surgeons are two separate fields. I'd imagine most veterinary surgeons are not furries.
Yeah. Google RainFurrest 2015.
I don't think I want to
Wasn't that a convention mostly for those who were banned from other conventions?
You're no defending foot fetishists in my comment section you are not
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I have this image of elmur fudd waiting for bugs bunny just so he can look at his feet
The secret is out.
I'm gonna love that metaphor forever
That sounds like description of a cave diver.
~~I mean, the word «fetish» itself is named after feet, so they’re literally the OG.~~
Looks like I was misinformed about that!
Going to acktually on you here but...
It began as:
"material object regarded with awe as having mysterious powers or being the representative of a deity that may be worshipped through it," 1610s, fatisso, from Portuguese feitiço "charm, sorcery, allurement," noun use of an adjective meaning "artificial."
which eventually morphed into:
Figurative sense of "something irrationally revered, object of blind devotion" appears to be an extension made by the New England Transcendentalists (1837). For sexual sense (1897), see fetishism.
Which...checks out in terms of our current understandings of the word. (But still is used as an object in magic in other circles). Which, if referring to a foot as an object of obsession...definitely "more" valid than saying "furry fetish" which is more of a "kink".
In the sexual sense a fetish is delineated from a kink in that with a fetish it's often considered necessary for attraction/sexual satisfaction to the haver. So strictly a person with a sadomasochism fetish can't get off without receiving or administering pain, whereas a person with a sadomasochism kink will sexually enjoy it, but can also get off from vanilla sex.
But they're often used interchangeably. Also within bdsm kinks can be nonsexual, with some folks not getting off on it, but still enjoying it.
I don't think that's correct. It seems like it originated from a magical context: something that puts a sexual "spell" on you
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_fetishism#History