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this post was submitted on 27 Jul 2026
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I've had a few dudes approach me in a similar way. If you're interacting in porno spaces online, it's more common than you'd think, buuuut unfortunately still a lot less common than dudes who don't treat me like a person.
Are unsolicited pictures of Dick Van Dyke ok?
Oh, pants, now I've asked they won't be unsolicited. I need to really rethink my dick game plans!!
deck pics are also high scorers. "ohhhh forgive my typo"
They would have been acceptable
I dunno what age range of dick pics you get from people but I, for one, am glad I'm passed my dick pic sending era. You should definitely get treated like a person more often than it sounds like you do.
... I've never sent an unsolicited dick pic.
Sure, if someone is asking... and like, we are actively, mutually sexting...
I dunno.
Never made any sense to me at all, to do that unprompted.
Not trying to like, dog on you, I just literally don't get it, how it would sense to do that.
We love character growth!
I guess I should explain a little more: when people approach me with the intent to sext, or whatever, most of them are terrible and disrespectful about it. People who just message me to be like "I like your art!" (i'm a porno artist) or whatever still comprise most of the messages I get and those people are generally good :)
Well that actually super nice to hear that the majority of messages you get are wholesome or kind in nature. It rekindles a little spark of hope in humanity in me that is always at risk of being snuffed out with everything going on in the world right now.
Keep doing what you do kind stranger, you seem like a genuinely kind person.
They don't treat you as a person on porno places and you are surprised?
What kind of people do you think hang out there... Its not going to be people interested in your soul.
You sound like my closeted bisexual friend, who hates people who make money via adult websites. You still have some growing up, just like him.
What part of my post indicated surprise to you?
To be clear, I'm never surprised when men are rude to me online, regardless of the space I'm in lol. I am generally disappointed that that's the state of the Internet, which I think is the correct way to feel.