"There are no neutral actions in the web of karma."
I will be stealing this. Thank you. The rest of what you said was also very inspiring, without medical intervention the body will take actions that will cause lasting harm to the child. Navigating the line between revealing enough to give an authentic description of a lived experience and overexposing traumatic details is intimidating but I think that route may be necessary for a discussion like this. Its been said that narratives win hearts and minds better than facts do.
of course my internalized transphobia is still caked on in places, it can be hard to imagine how the trauma could matter to others while I reflexively downplay it to myself