That chart shows the deadliest months happening under Biden, a bump to about half the peak monthly killings under Trump, then the eventual "ceasefire" stage we're at now. The worst of it ended under Trump.
Considering they could have stopped Israel at any time, Democrats get zero credit for more killings happening on their watch and the eventual "ceasefire" happening on Trump's.
we have better odds of making the democrats change course than the republicans
Not if we vote for them even when they commit the crime of crimes. If votes are conditional on them doing good things (or at least not committing crimes against humanity), they might do good things. If votes are unconditional, they'll do what they want.