International Transgender Day of Visibility (TDoV) is a day for celebrating the lives of transgender people, recognizing the contributions we make to society and rallying against the discrimination we face. TDoV also functions as a counterpart to the International Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDoR)^[TDoR is observed on November 20th and memorializes those of us who's lives were stolen by transphobic violence, particularly trans women of color. TDoR was initially founded in 1999 in remembrance of Rita Hester, Chanelle Pickett, and Monique Thomas, three black trans women who were murdered in the Boston area.]; with TDoR being a somber occasion and TDoV having a more celebratory nature.

For this week, in observation of TDoV, I invite you all, the posters in our community to write a little bit about the celebration of trans lives.


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a poster that proclaims the international transgender day of visibility on march 31st
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[โ€“] 7 points 6 months ago* (8 children)

bottom dysphoria, bottom surgeryYou do not need full depth - and the amount of dilation needed is a bit overblown even with it. Its "permanent" but really after the first few months thats about the depth youre gonna have (and maintenance schedules after a year is once a week and getting something in there e.g. sex counts). If you don't get full depth, there is nothing to dilate and recovery is significantly faster.

I was ambivalent about bottom dysphoria too. Its only after bottom surgery and getting my vagina do I feel how much I was living with before. I was very toppy, and I had the bit which could be used for that, so it was always an uneasy alliance. I was happier using a strap even before bottom surgery than using my gock. That might not be the same as it is for you, but from my experience... you ain't missing much if you use it PIV mode lol (also straps and double sided dildos exist anyway).

If you would be happier with a vagina, look into it. If youre just ambivalent about what you have - consider it and think about it, for real think about it.

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  • [โ€“] 3 points 6 months ago (7 children)

    Yeah ambivalent is how I'd describe it... although

    mild nsfwWearing women's pants has been causing some distress because of the occasional bulge, but I don't know if that's just not wanting to look like a creep.

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  • [โ€“] 3 points 6 months ago (6 children)

    Get panties that have a pattern and not a solid color, it helps hide the bulge pretty well and they're CUTE!!!

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  • [โ€“] 2 points 6 months ago (5 children)

    My issue is with how it looks over my pants, not sure how a pattern below them would help? Although I have just been using boyshorts for underwear so maybe switching to panties proper could be good

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  • [โ€“] 2 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    No, frankly I have no clue how to find my inguinal canals or how to shove the homies up there

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  • [โ€“] 3 points 6 months ago

    Sorry, I read that as panties and not pants. But if you are looking into panties and your on the bigger side Hanes line of "just my size"are good quality that or Duluth trading company. They're good quality and will last

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