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[-] [email protected] 198 points 6 days ago

A confounding issue is the apps themselves have gotten worse over time. Like, old okcupid you could search. You could type in like "final fantasy" or "the Mets" and find people who liked those things enough to put them on their profile.

Now you're limited to whatever the app decides to give you. Well, the app doesn't want you to leave so that incentive doesn't line up.

[-] [email protected] 104 points 6 days ago

A lot of the more popular ones, okcupid included, all got bought up by Match Group and almost immediately started trending anti-consumer in their updates or removal of features. They want you paying, they don't give a shit about success.

[-] [email protected] 20 points 6 days ago

Close, they actively fight success. Legally obligated to, even. It’s their fiduciary responsibility to keep you using the app.

[-] [email protected] 17 points 6 days ago

So capitalism is incompatible with dating apps. Who woulda thunk?

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