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[+] 90 points 1 year ago* (20 children)
  • [–] 115 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Well, yes, very clearly it's a "man on screen said it" situation, but it's not like that's new.

    People who repeated "ground control to {insert name}" to get the attention of someone whose mind was elsewhere didn't believe they were actually addressing an astronaut. It's an idiom born of the current cultural zeitgeist.

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  • [–] 54 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Lol bro younger generations just say random shit to sound cool.

    I'm remembering how many times I said "epic" or phonetically pronounced "lulz" in every day speech when I was younger. It's just something kids do.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I still remember roflcopter being said aloud on a few occassions.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I had a friend who said “el mayo” out loud.

    It was me.

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  • [–] 35 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    I think it's Gen Alpha, not Gen Z.

    A friend of mine teaches middle school maths, and every kid in the class is striving to be an influencer or twitch streamer, no other aspirations in life.

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  • [–] 30 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    There's no longer any realistic path to wealth for anyone who doesn't have nepotism on their side.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    You're not wrong, but I very seriously doubt this is what's going through the kids' heads

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  • [–] 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Kids are smarter than we give them credit for. It’s like kids dreaming of being actors or singers or athletes.

    Even if they think their teachers are good people, they clearly see that they don’t drive fancy cars. Even if their parents are middle income earners, they aren’t as famous or rich as the people babysitting them on screen. It may be more obnoxious and more piped straight into their eyeballs now but it’s hardly new.

    Hell I’m a grown ass adult and I think about every once in a while.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Hell I’m a grown ass adult and I think about every once in a while.

    Have fun talking to chat which is at most 3 people for years while waiting for your breakthrough

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Not who you responded to, but when I play with the idea of starting streaming, that's the kind of vibe I wish for, not the breakthrough part

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Nothing wrong with that, but it's not what the kids are looking for

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    While i agree with the general thing, I also truly think reality is more nuanced. I used to be a high-school teacher, and a lot of those kids just yearn for sincere socialising opportunities in general, more than celebrity success (even if some do also have that goal)

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  • [–] 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    and this is why I limit Internet access to my kids.

    I get compliments on how sweet and courteous my kids(under 10) are and get asked what my secret is. I tell parents, "YouTube only 30 minutes a week. all other internet content is blocked. no Facebook, tik tok, x, etc."

    they give me the most confused and sometimes disgusted looks.

    don't know when, but society became far too dependent on being "connected". it's far easier to give it up when it's your choice vs when it's taken from you.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    At some point you should give them some more freedom. That's very restrictive on the connections they can make with their peers as they won't learn the cultural norms.

    You're not benefitting them in the long term, they will be stunted in their grasp of the Internet, which is very important in today's landscape. They will also go behind your back to access the internet with NO restrictions rather than you being able to block some of the worst stuff and letting them access normal stuff.

    Granted if they're under 10 that's fine, but consider opening up as they get older.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Eh, my partner and I are old and we say it ironically.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    My real name starts with Chat and since it's a little difficult to pronounce if you don't know French I use it as a nickname.people always asking me weird questions on the Internet.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Tbf, the zoomer/boomer thing is in the same vein.

    If I can recall, chat was a term used in old IRC rooms, too. Just fads coming back around. Its just like "groovy" or "bees knees". Every gen has their slang.

    Its literally too much stress for me to get irritated over something so small. I have enough stress already. We all do. Save yourself a pointless wrinkle, friend.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    i don't remember using "chat", i remember using "all", but different rooms had different cultures.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Yeah, I hit a few rooms that said 'chat', but it wasn't really a solid thing. That was the fun part of not having centralized social platforms. Each room had its own thing, and it was hilarious when you said something that was popular in one room in another and found someone you knew from that same room.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago*

    Funny moments get shared between friends and spreads its reach -> Long form reaction content creates sharable moments -> Livestreams generate long form reaction content -> Livestreams have a chat that accompanies the streamer -> Streamer refers to chat during funny moments -> This is referenced as a meme -> Talking to chat spreads beyond the original context

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    ... If you do it occasionally, when contextually appropriate... it is funny, a self aware reference to how they spend a lot of time on twitch streams, and are expressing disbelief.

    When you do it all the time, reflexively, regardless of context... yeah, that may indicate that that just is your baseline norm for social interaction and you fundamentally cannot or do not distinguish between the contexts of online interaction and irl interaction.

    There a whole lot of kids now who are just basically raises from near birth by screens. Parents with no free time or parents who don't give a shit just give the kid a distraction rectangle so they don't have to ... raise them.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    lmao I'm gonna start to say goodbye like that XD

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    Chat just became synonymous with readers/listeners in modern slang. I also went through my "old man yells at cloud" phase about it, but it's fine, I guess. I still get annoyed when people say the name of twitch emotes, though.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    My guess is it was accidentally done by people watching too many streamers who would intentionally call the group of chatters as chat. It was then done ironically as a way to illicit a reaction on something as a streamer did. Then became more regular nomenclature to query a group

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    "don't forget to like and subscribe"

    That seems more like the result of bad parenting.

    I think a lot of young people see content creation as the only way they can make the money they want/need. I think many of them idolize streamers/content creators, and so they emulate them however they can. Part of that is dreaming to eventually have a 'chat' to say 'chat' to.

    Makes me pretty sad, tbh.

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