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Being able to explain things in life to your child is basic parenting.
even if you can't you can say it, like:
but in reality "how will i explain to my kids" has never been a genuine question. you can say "some people do that" and that is all the explanation needed. no, this is just code for "i don't want to see this myself, and I'm using my children as an excuse".
I've found with my kids "I don't really know, how about we look it up together" is very effective.
it is, and I've even learned some things because of it. I'm just saying if you're really trying to avoid the issue you can just do it, it's not like you're giving a testimony.
It's also code for "I really hate myself for who I am on the inside, and seeing other people be their authentic selves makes me sad, angry, and confused. If my kids learned that it was OK to be themselves, I would lose my shit. They must suffer as I have suffered."
Usually the issue is LGBTphobic parents convinced themselves anything remotely LGBTQIA is sexual in nature, and they must protect their kids, that if they actually believe it, and not just either "noble lying" (seen some christian fundamentalists admitting "it's not actually harmful, but what if it'll be too late for heaven?"), or just doing it for cruelty reasons (bigots, just like bullies, like to paint their targets as people deserving of the bad treatment).
And this also has a hidden assumption that talking to your kids about anything sexual isn't good. That mindset can lead to teenage pregnancy because, like it or not, our bodies are wired to make sexuality easily discoverable, even if society wasn't full of it (and it would still be full of it even if lgbt-ness could be dialed to 0).
On another note, wanting to suppress sexuality so that women have fewer options and might be more likely to choose those suppressing it is such a pathetic mindset.
You don't have to explain it if you haven't taught them to hate from an early age.