Contacted a therapist today. Please be proud of me

::: spoiler im overwhelmed

My friend has been so fucking weird with me and needing constant unending intense emotional support around her life and specifically around her jealousy of myself and one of our friends fucking. I keep trying to tell her that i cant be a suppirt person in this for her, but nothing changes, and i keep having the same conversation over and over and its fucking exhausting and i just want it to end. The convo isnt productive, and its sole purpose is for her to get reassurance that we wont fuck when im clear and adamant that that us stopping wont happen, because us fucking is none of her business. We all live together and she wants me to text her any time we are gonna fuck but also doesnt ever want to know about it and i keep telling her that its not appropriate or healthy for us to have that depth and style of communication and she agrees with me and then a couple days later asks for it again and we have the exact same convo all over again

Anyway i keep asking for space and she doesnt give it to me and she gets upset and feels like im "leaving her" when i go to my room for distance and space. Im so done with this.

William alexander was pretty amazing, screaming about the hammer of thor while aggressively painting is such a mood.

hi, would you buzz me in? Im here for the platonic snuggle session

How do you argue with them? Genuinely, i could feel my brain seeping out my ears just perusing the comment section.

Also good work

Thesis: i want to post in the mega and talk to other trans folks

Antithesis: i have nothing to say

Synthesis: post meaninglessness

Anyway, idk how thats related to being trans, aside from that im trans.

Besides all that I have some friends who are nice, they keep me sane. Gonna hopefully expand my social circle a bit this week, but might crash out at the last second cause of the aforementioned brain not working right.

I hope everyone else is having a better time of things. Sorry for bringing everything down 😓

Uhhh yeah id like some materialism with a side of dialectics. But no Marx! If its Marx or his dialectical materialism, i send it back!

Theres a url, say peepee.com. So far this is the routing portion of the url that says how to find the web server, basically saying "ask .com how to find peepee", and that gives us the ip address of the server.

Everything that comes after that, is information for the server itself. So to navigate to a resource, say poopoo, that lives on the server, they would navigate to peepee.com/poopoo.

But sometimes you want to navigate to that resource and also communicate some bit of information to the server, say a login token so the server knows who is accessing that resource. This is communicated via a URL parameter, and looks like ?userid=abcd1234, or in the full url: peepee.com/poopoo?userid=abcd1234. So the user is still accessing the same resource, but has provided additional metadata to the server.

These parameters can be abused to identify who knows who and who communicates with who by attaching a tracking id parameter to the URL, so when you share a link it includes that tracking parameter and anyone who clicks on it, well now the server knows that the originator of the tracking ID (well, the first person to be assigned it) shared it with this other person. This can be combined with other collected info to build a map and social graph of actual people, e.g. we know dave is at this ip, and jane is at this other ip, and we put a tracking parameter in daves url and we saw jane use that same tracking parameter in her url, so we know that dave shared this url with jane.

So to answer your question, a canonical link is a link to a resource without the unneeded url parameters.

So my conception (at least, as it relates to me) is that they/them is fine, until you know my pronouns, at which point it becomes misgendering as I dont use they/them. I wont be upset with people for using they/them, but if someone only uses they/them for me even after knowing I use she/her i will be a bit upset.

Ok so like the transphobes were tech people at the location we were organizing at, so not part of the org. But i am considering just dropping the whole org cause people didnt say shit. Like seriously fuck them.