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[–] [email protected] 36 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (3 children)

Also the internet throws a lot of our traditional understandings of culture out the window. A 20 year old and a 40 year old might not have had as much reason to hang out before (although things like sports and hobbies did pull age groups together some) but now they're all playing against each other in the new Call of Duty, sharing memes about Among Us, laughing about how they're too old for the Skibidi Toilet and arguing on Twitter.com

There's lots of injokes and references and slang that I don't understand not because of my age, but because I don't watch Streamer X or play Y game or have Z streaming service. And yet plenty of people younger, my age, and older will get those references because they do. Meanwhile the opposite is true, I've played some online games from my childhood with kids who weren't even alive when the game came out! It was kinda shocking really.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

The tipped wage allows unskilled workers

It allows conventionally attractive young white unskilled workers in dense enough areas to do that.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

It really just depends on where you work and your demographics.

Young black male in rural city? Lol you're fucked. Attractive young white woman in dense urban center at trendy expensive restaurant? Absolutely crazy amounts of money.

I've known people who graduate, get a job in the field they wanted and then quit and went back to serving because they fell into the right demos and location.

The tipping floor is the lowest it can possibly be but the ceiling is extremely high. And it's largely based off unfair reasons.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Lol what the fuck is that petition, there is no way 4.5k people work at Casa Bonita who would be affected by it when they don't even have 350 staff.

That means at least some part of the signatures are not employees but outsiders trying to speak for the employees.

Which also means that they might not even represent many employees to begin with! For all we know 99% of workers don't want to go back to tipping.

And going off the line at the bottom (although it is quite possible they are lying, management does lie often), it seems like that could potentially be the case. After all the article only identified two people who were upset.

Of 256 employees, 93 were a part of the shift and only two said they were unhappy about it, management said at the time.

The petition claims to have more than this but it also claims to have almost 5k signed on so it's pretty unreasonable.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (5 children)

These practices include such offenses as fertilizing garlic with human feces and forms of sewage, growing garlic in sewage

From https://www.mcgill.ca/oss/article/you-asked/it-true-garlic-china-grown-human-feces-and-watered-urine

there is no evidence that garlic in China is fertilized in this fashion. In any case, there is no problem with this, human waste is as effective a fertilizer as is animal waste. Spreading human sewage on fields that grow crops doesn't sound appealing, but it is safer than you might think.

That would be my guess too at first glance. What do they think manure is if they're grossed out at sewage? As long as it's treated properly to reduce pathogens then it's just "ew yucky I don't like the real world".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Yeah I always do that if I don't know and can't reasonably ask them at the moment.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (9 children)

The idea that Mao had regressive views on women should not be shocking in the slightest. Modern women's rights are really really recent developments across the world.

One shocking fact I like to bring up is that women weren't even allowed to own their bank accounts till like the 70s/80s. My mom brings that one up when talking about how much things have changed since her childhood.

But it's also not particularly relevant. People don't listen to Mao for his views on women's rights. It's the same way we don't dismiss electricity just because the society back then owned slaves.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago

One lesser spoken about part of short term capitalistic pressures, how successful and delicious recipes will inevitably get destroyed in pursuit of cost cutting until the product fails to sell anymore.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago (4 children)

It's an opinion article, those always have takes that are much different then the mainstream. For better (like the one here) or for worse (pretty much all of NYTs).

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

“It’s not only a long-standing moral commitment; it’s a strategic commitment,” then-Vice President Biden said in 2013. “An independent Israel, secure in its own borders, recognized by the world is in the practical strategic interest of the United States of America. I used to say … if there were no Israel, we’d have to invent one.”

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The thing about Ughyurs is that there might be cultural repression that goes on in the area. There might even be instances of abuse and violence, one of the issues with even the best theoritical bureaucracies is that you still have to delegate tasks out and have some trust it won't be misused. There might be examples of low level officials who harassed a Ughyur family unfairly or put someone in remediation who wasn't an issue. It's more about the systems and overarching structure of the program that matters more.

This is the same logic we should be using with any nation realistically. And from what we see of Xianjang, there doesn't seem to be much actual strong evidence of systemic abuse. We don't see systemic evidence provided by the west, we don't see it in reactions by nearby nations, we don't see it by the actions of these supposed victims. So where is it beyond a bunch of claims?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

No I'm sure it totally happens. Antisemitism is a very real issue. Fash doesn't go away just because they have a cover for it, it's just good to not be stupid and dismiss the cover as being fash like Israel tries to do. It's a cover because it's not bad to do.

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Nobody could have predicted this. I have my doubts even when they call it "spying equipment" or whatever considering Chinese claim it was a meteorological balloon, certainly no doubt they would try to paint those tools as such.

 

So like, I'm one of those live with parents no college super autistic basically unable to function on my own type of NEETs and a lot of places on the internet tend to be pretty hostile if you admit to that or try to be happy about "minor accomplishments" in their eyes so I just wanna share it here instead cause y'all so nice.

Ever since the start of Covid I've been making really good progress on being more independent and taking care of myself and my body. Twice a week I go to the park now and just walk around (with plenty of sunscreen if course!) and I've been able to branch off of just junk food and eat more fruits and veggies. Like I never knew brocolli could taste so good with just a little bit of olive oil and seasoning. I even found a way to make some light money online filling out like, university studies and stuff. It's actually pretty good pay (it's a UK site and most of them are at/above UK min wage so even transferring to USD it's still well worth the time) but obviously not reliable enough to make as a job even if I wanted to. But having a little bit of money to myself to use as I want is a huge help.

Also been looking into those Section 8 vouchers and trying to get on disability and maybe even be able to live at my own place near my parents. Even signed up for the local community college and got a little bit of financial aid. God bless the Pell grant, imma get myself some clothes I've been wanting maybe or anything else I can figure out how to paint as "necessary for my education" since it's just free money. I don't plan on getting a job either in the end even if I managed to somehow get a degree so imma just use it how I want.

All in all I feel like I've been doing a whole lot better. I can see it in my parents face too, everytime I've looked at them since I was about 20 even I could tell they basically "gave up" on me but they seem so happy and supportive. It's actually kinda upsetting in its own right, makes me feel like I'm apparently of more value to them if I'm productive but I also know it's because they want me to have a good life and they've been trained by society to view that in a particular way so I'm not mad.

Oh yeah also since my dad helped me get my legal name changed a bit ago, my classes will be the first time I'm out at some major thing like this getting to present as myself. I even felt bad about having to do this so late in my life but apparently I'm the average age of community college students at 28 so I might be able to fit in well! I'm used to lying about my life to cover up all the issues I have so I'm hoping I'll be able to fit in well enough. And if not, oh well fuck them anyway I suppose I'm good enough for me and that's what matters.

Hell even smaller things I've been getting better at like getting used to the feeling of makeup on my face which when I first tried it a few years ago was too overstimulating.

Thank you Hexbear for being such a great site that I feel comfortable talking about these embarrassing things. I love you all <3

 

It's just a single study right now but the results are interesting. While investor bans increase first time home ownership, those buyers were often much wealthier than the renters they were replacing. So while more people owned homes, those homes went to the richer people and the poorer ones were forced out of their neighborhoods due to rising rent.

The ban has successfully increased middle-income households' access to homeownership, at the expense of buy-to-let investors. However, the policy also drove up rents in affected neighborhoods, thereby damaging housing affordability for individuals reliant on private rental housing, undermining some of the intentions of the law

The logic at least makes straightforward sense to me. The people who can afford to just straight up buy homes are obviously going to be richer than those who can't so when the rental potential is taken away, they all go the richer buyers

 

Hi, so all my cards are technically possible to be seen by my parents and they look at transactions sometimes (I know at my age I should be more dependant but I'm not, rely on them for a few things) and since I typically use their Amazon account they would be wondering why a transaction showed up from Amazon that's not on there and I really don't want to handle interrogation or issues that could arise from it ya know? They're the types who would press it wondering what secrets I'm keeping and I'm not sure how accepting they would be.

I already managed to get some free cash into an Amazon gift card and pay for most of I'm trying to get but I'm missing 10 bucks. The reason why title says 15 is that it's the lowest you can get for a gift card code.

There's no pressure at all to help at all, I can get most of what I was aiming for like I said just figured I'd ask and maybe someone has a spare or whatever. I'd just be needing a code for 15 dollars off Amazon (American) and it would cover everything left.

Thanks in advance.

 

The type of game that when you recommend it, you have to clarify they need to play a few hours before they'll understand.

To me, many JRPGs have this problem. Xenoblade, Final Fantasy (14 especially), Tales, Kiseki, etc all take forever to get interesting.

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