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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

Hello, I wanted to try and compile a list of the hexbear users seeking funds as well as people outside the site's fundraisers so that we could feature it. These have all been posted before in out mutual_aid community.

Hello friends, I've changed my donation link after encountering several issues with GoFundMe and multiple donations not being processed. I hope you'll support me and my family. Because I received several donations on GoFundMe but they didn't reach bank account, I faced this problem several times, and unfortunately, the amounts were not small. Please my friends, to share a link between your family and friends on social media.

  • mahmoud

Mohammad’s health condition is critical. Please take a few minutes of your time, read the post, and help with whatever you can 🚨🆘

  • Soliman_ayman

Children Need Food, Not Silence

  • Doaa

Please help me, things are difficult 😞

  • ayamohamed

Please help us😭🙏

  • EhabAbeer99

Please, you are our hope 💔🙏

  • fadishayyah

Here are some of the previous ones we have done:

Here are some of the mutual aid posts and fundraiser links:

links

https://hexbear.net/post/6261559

https://hexbear.net/post/6260033

https://hexbear.net/post/6255947

https://hexbear.net/post/6254312

https://hexbear.net/post/6230686

https://hexbear.net/post/6217447

https://hexbear.net/post/6206754

https://hexbear.net/post/6203939

https://hexbear.net/post/6190122

https://hexbear.net/post/6191302

https://hexbear.net/post/6183838

https://hexbear.net/post/6183838

https://hexbear.net/post/6150934

https://hexbear.net/post/6134461

https://hexbear.net/post/6112884

https://hexbear.net/post/6120323

https://hexbear.net/post/6120323

https://hexbear.net/post/6112884

https://hexbear.net/post/6118943

https://hexbear.net/post/6072694

https://hexbear.net/post/6007236

https://hexbear.net/post/6003654

https://hexbear.net/post/5989911

https://hexbear.net/post/5481568

https://hexbear.net/post/5489385

https://hexbear.net/post/5453912

https://hexbear.net/post/5501604

https://hexbear.net/post/5783600

https://hexbear.net/post/5782937

Help Ahmed support his family after his father’s death

Anaam and her family are struggling in Gaza, now in Nasser hospital with her younger brother

https://www.spotfund.com/story/76e7ff13-5f52-40a2-8148-52c7dc7db22f?source=s

Please comment any others you would like added to this post, thank you

https://www.spotfund.com/story/76e7ff13-5f52-40a2-8148-52c7dc7db22f?source=s

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

Hello users of Hexbear, I am making this post to notify all users of the following:

Going forward comments giving unsolicited advice will be removed, comments or posts that are critical of any mutual aid post or user will be removed, posts containing opsec leaks will be removed, posts containing payment links will be removed.

Posts containing personally identifiable information (PII) will result in a temporary ban from the mutual aid community

Please consider posting once a day and editing the title of a mutual aid post when the mutual aid request has been met.

We strongly advise you ask people to send you a direct message to obtain information regarding payment.

Consider not make comments about getting large anonymous donations or about what the money gets spent on.

If you want to provide advice/resources then please make a separate post here or indicate you are open to non-monetary help in your post

Other meta posts must be in the !feedback@hexbear.net but do not ping a user or specifically/explicitly link their hexbear account to another hexbear account.

Users cannot assume that any post has been vetted and must do their own investigation.

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submitted 15 minutes ago by Angel@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

I'm excited about this](https://hexbear.net/comment/7274186)

My Cash App is $QuingCrimson

I also have PayPal, Venmo, and Zelle, DM me for those.

Thanks to everyone who has been supportive

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submitted 22 minutes ago by CassandraD@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/8944875

Ive been asking literally for 16 hours straight now for someone to BUY ME A BITE TO EAT, THATS ALL. I mean, is that really too much to ask for. Ive literally eith been ignored or looked at like im scum. I just want to not be hungry anymore. Im not an alcoholic. Im not a drug addict. Im just homeless and hungry. So if anyone has a heart and soul and is capable of sharing a little bit of emotion and empathy, then please help out your fellow comrade. Im truly relying on this community right now to show me that people in this world still care. Im literally balling my eyes out right now. Im seriously feeling like I should just give up. If nobody is willing to help me get something to eat and drink., which is my human right, or so i thought, then why should I try anymore. Im literally contemplating stealing some food, but i dont have it in me to steal. Please give me a reason to care about myself. My PayPal is having issues for some reason. Please PayPal my best friends account. They are camping right next to me. I have permission to use it. The link is : https://py.pl/pR8ZE8mSDkdK4GEFpAoxug

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submitted 11 minutes ago by YoBippo@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

Just spent 2 weeks in the ICU and was unable to work only to get out and the wheel bearing on my car has busted. I am disabled and Uber driving is my only source of income so this has left me without money for my meds or food and no way to work until it is fixed. Please anything helps and is literally lifesaving. Thank you all and God Bless ❤️

Venmo: YoBippo

Cashapp: $YoBippo

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Ive been asking literally for 16 hours straight now for someone to BUY ME A BITE TO EAT, THATS ALL. I mean, is that really too much to ask for. Ive literally eith been ignored or looked at like im scum. I just want to not be hungry anymore. Im not an alcoholic. Im not a drug addict. Im just homeless and hungry. So if anyone has a heart and soul and is capable of sharing a little bit of emotion and empathy, then please help out your fellow comrade. Im truly relying on this community right now to show me that people in this world still care. Im literally balling my eyes out right now. Im seriously feeling like I should just give up. If nobody is willing to help me get something to eat and drink., which is my human right, or so i thought, then why should I try anymore. Im literally contemplating stealing some food, but i dont have it in me to steal. Please give me a reason to care about myself. My PayPal is having issues for some reason. Please PayPal my best friends account. They are camping right next to me. I have permission to use it. The link is : https://py.pl/3z9pFDDOdkaDUD2lG0GTgA

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submitted 14 hours ago by Hala@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

My name is Hala, and I am from Gaza. Today, I am reaching out with a heavy heart, asking for your kindness during the hardest time of our lives.

My family has lost our home, our safety, and the life we once knew. We are now living in extremely difficult conditions, where every day is a struggle to survive. The intense summer heat inside the tents is unbearable. We have to endure insects, mosquitoes, scorpions, and even snakes while trying to protect our family with almost nothing.

On top of these harsh living conditions, the prices of food, clean water, medicine, and other basic necessities have become incredibly expensive. Every day, we worry about how we will provide the essentials our family needs to survive.

No family should have to live like this, but this is our reality.

If you are able to help, no matter how small the donation, it will make a real difference in our lives. If you cannot donate, please consider sharing our campaign. A single share could reach someone who can help save our family.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you for your compassion, your prayers, and your support. Every act of kindness gives us hope and reminds us that we are not alone. ❤️

Please support our family here: https://gogetfunding.com/help-hala-and-here-family/

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submitted 16 hours ago by Doaa@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

I swear to you, life is far harder than it may seem from the outside.

I have no stable income, prices keep rising, and I do everything I can to provide the bare essentials for my children, but the burdens have become heavier than I can bear.

Every day is another struggle to secure food, medicine, and basic necessities. I am simply asking for a chance to give my children a little safety and dignity.

If you are able to support us, even with a small donation or by sharing our fundraiser, you will be giving an entire family hope to keep going.

💙 Support our family: https://gofund.me/1d3ea05b6

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heyy everyone ❤️❤️❤️….

Hope you’re all doing good….. I have been meaning to come back here for a while. first, i’m sorry for disappearing again.

after my last update, so many of you donated, shared our fundraiser, boosted the post and left encouraging comments. i honestly don’t know how to thank you enough.

because of your support, we were able to get the girls vaccinated and buy the things they needed before they left for quarantine. these photos are just a small glimpse of what your kindness made possible.

i wish i could’ve shared this sooner.

after the vaccinations, IOM took the girls for quarantine because of the Ebola precautions. around the same time, the internet here in South Sudan was shut down, so i couldn’t get back online to update everyone.

I have felt bad about being quiet because you’ve all stood with us through some incredibly difficult moments. i never wanted anyone to think i disappeared after receiving your support.

i didn’t.

i think about this community often.

thank you to every single person who donated, shared our fundraiser, boosted the post or simply took a moment to leave a kind message. all of it mattered.

seeing the girls smiling again after everything we’d been through is something i’ll never forget.

thank you for helping make that possible.

love, onandrah

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submitted 19 hours ago by mahmoud@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net
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submitted 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) by RiotDoll@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

i need some transit fare, somehow, to handle getting to my job and a doctors appointment coming up

venmo/paypal is @ktkatte

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submitted 23 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) by LeylaLove@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

Hello! I just recently found out the person I moved in with has an unpaid electric bill at an old apartment she used to rent. This person is a long time best friend and generally prefer disorganized, so I don't think this was purposely hiding this. Well, we only have a week to pay this before we get our power turned off right at the start of summer. I make biweekly checks and just got mine recently, however I had to buy groceries, my bus pass, new non-slips (my current ones are literally falling apart) and other essentials. The money I have left, I need for rides back from work

Also sorry for posting this before 24 hours passed from my last post, I'm just about to work a 14 hour shift so I won't have time to post at work today. I live in a World Cup host city and they're holding a giant shitty music festival that my restaurant has a booth at.

My Venmo is @thenewvenven and my PayPal is sh3lf1sh@gmail.com

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Hello! So I got paid yesterday, however that money is going very quickly. My roommate is also schizophrenic and she's really the one that got us an apartment. She's on disability and barely brings in any money. I love her like a sister though, when she has the money, she's buying stuff for the two of us. We both love each other a lot, we share everything, we feast and starve together no matter what

Well, when moving in, she talked to the electric company and found out she has an electric bill from a previous house. While I did just get paid, I've already spent a lot of that money on groceries for the two of us, and I need to have money set aside to Uber back to my place. It's 90-100 degrees outside on any given day, and we only have a week to pay it before our power gets shut off

My Venmo is @thenewvenven PayPal is sh3lf1sh@gmail.com. Thank y'all so much!

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Search this community for #BringSoraHome to see all related posts.

Please read and sign our petition: https://www.change.org/BringSoraHome

And please share it with everyone online and IRL. There's also a QR code for the petition if you prefer:

I am contacting rights groups in Ireland and Japan but am currently waiting for people to get back to me. I am also paying for legal services in Japan to locate and confirm Sora is doing well.

So far, I have been able to pay for everything with what I have, but I will need a lot of help very soon to hire the people necessary. I will make another post here when I have a clearer idea of how much I need. And I will continue to use what's left of the previous donations, and whatever get each week for food from the Irish government (I have plenty of food and very little appetite right now), to take care of smaller things. I have applied for work in Ireland, but am still waiting to receive approval. I am checking that request every single day.

The GoGetFunding page has been restored, with a more up to date account of everything that has happened. You can read it there, or below:

Message from GoGetFunding

Back in October 2025, me and my then three-year-old son Sora left Japan after enduring years of abusive and violent behavior from his mother and her parents. Every attempt to work things out or find some reasonable compromise out failed or led to further abuse and danger. Me and my son were forced to live apart from her for over a year. She constantly threatened me with prison, deportation, and lawsuits, she refused to take financial responsibility for a child she was claiming ownership of as if he was a piece of property she was entitled to. Ultimately, she disappeared and refused requests to even visit him. I was not being allowed to work because I was a full-time parent, and the work I could find as a teacher wasn't enough to live on. I was not given any support by the Japanese government, and the money and supplies I had stored up was quickly disappearing. So, after almost 13 years, I made the extremely difficult decision to leave the home I had made in Japan so that I could properly take care of my son.

Once the absent mother was told that we came to Ireland to seek asylum to get the medical and financial assistance we both needed, as well as protection from the domestic violence we had suffered through (which the Japanese police refused to do anything about), she filed kidnapping charges using the Hague Convention and demanded that my son, whom I was the only active parent to for over two years, be deported back to Japan.

Despite demonstrating to the Irish Courts that she was abusive, threatening, manipulative, irresponsible in her role as a mother, voluntarily absent, as well as exhibiting mental instability (including mentioning suicide), despite showing that Sora is exhibiting physical manifestations of his trauma and having evidence that his trauma is linked to contact with his mother, the Courts decided to side with her and ruled that Sora must be returned to her "care" and appealing that decision left me without legal representation which made it impossible to do anything meaningful to change their mind. I had to stand there and watch Sora be shuffled off of the court grounds as he looked back to me wondering why this was happening. That was two weeks ago.

Throughout this whole ordeal, I have been repeatedly told that the judges had no choice but to follow the Hague Convention. The problem with that excuse is that the Hague Convention did not apply to our situation. Not only was the mother voluntarily failing to exercise her custody rights by disappearing multiple times, but our situation qualifies for multiple exceptions of the mandate for the child in question to be deported. Including the fact that Sora now verbally refers to Ireland as "home,"

The real problem is clear; The Irish Courts, specifically certain Judges, still hold to the outdated and dangerous beliefs that a woman is entitled to their child no matter what. Even after being abusive and negligent towards them. And that a man cannot possibly be the victim of domestic violence, or raise a child on his own. Present-day Ireland knows better than that. Present-day Ireland is very progressive and accepting, and champions equality and the welfare and safety of children. But there are still people in positions of power that push against this progress and growth and those people have deliberately and needlessly placed my son, an abuse survivor, in the same abusive environment that I spent years getting us out of.

And Sora cannot possibly be the only one. This hypocrisy is a danger to many other child abuse survivors who are brought to Ireland and, like us, are told that they will be protected and that they're safe. We were accepted into this country on the grounds that we were escaping abuse and were promised protection by the Irish government. "You're safe now." But when the time came, that protection simply was not there. This miscarriage of justice has to be corrected for Sora's sake and for the sake of everyone else who's found themselves at the mercy of an unfeeling Judge who simply wants to quickly brush the case under the rug and look good in front of the EU.

This campaign is primarily for Sora, but will hopefully effect changes that positively impact many other children. We are currently collecting donations to hire legal representation here in Ireland to formally challenge the courts' decision against protecting and abused child and demanding that judges acknowledge the Irish & international laws that provide those protections for children in all cases going forward, including cases involving a misuse of the Hague Convention. As well as a reversal of the verdict against us. And to hire legal representation in Japan to locate Sora to confirm that he is safe and in good health, and argue the same facts in Japanese court to claim sole custody and secure his safe return to his home in Ireland.

Please help us as this battle drags on. I refuse to give up on Sora, but I need your help to keep going. Every little bit will help. If you have any questions about this or can help us out in any other way, please reach out to me here or through the links below. Thank you very much.

Please share this link with people outside of Lemmy: https://www.gogetfunding.com/BringSoraHome/

Remember, GoGetFunding takes a cut of all donations. So if you want all of the money you send to reach me, donate directly through PayPal as a friend.

Direct PayPal link: https://www.paypal.me/TheGreenMelon

Thank you all very much! If you have any questions, just ask. If you can help out in other ways, please contact me here or on the social media platforms.

Mastodon: https://mastodon.social/@aeronmelon

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/daddymelon.bsky.social

#BringSoraHome

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Trying not to spam too much with the reposts.

Thank you in advance for reading. Anything helps 💜

My venmo is koday86 , cashapp $corgisaurusrex, and zelle kieran.oday86@gmail.com. I made a new PayPal KieranODay1986 / queercorgirocks@gmail.com

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For those who didn’t know, I am a 30-year old gamer and college graduate. I was diagnosed with autism since early age.

I am very dependent on my pension and my aunt on my budget.

There would be a lot of problems related to food and survival after graduation, such as fees while looking for a job. Job hunting may not be easy even after graduation.

Ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/ahriboy/

Please if you can spare anything, Thank you!

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submitted 2 days ago by Doaa@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

Every day, the burden on my children grows heavier while access to food, medicine, and basic necessities becomes more difficult. I am doing everything I can to care for them, but I can no longer do it alone.

If you are able to help—even with a small donation or by sharing my campaign—you could make a real difference for my family.

Thank you to everyone who stands with us during this difficult time. ❤️

https://gofund.me/1d3ea05b6

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hi, my name is nana. i'm 25, disabled, and a trans man from indonesia.

i initially escaped to malaysia hoping to access a UNHCR resettlement pathway, but after exhausting every option, i was forced to return to my abusive home in indonesia.

this was never what i wanted, but it is currently the only way for me to reduce living costs (simply by not paying rent), save money, continue fundraising, and work toward permanently relocating to a safer country in the future.

as a fellow comrade, please consider donating and sharing this post.

donation link: https://ko-fi.com/andy_aeternum

more about my situation: https://www.instagram.com/andy_aeternum (check my reels)

other ways you can help without donating money:

• volunteer to actively fundraise for my cause on your own social media • volunteer to contact anyone you think may be able to help by sharing my fundraiser, providing financial assistance, or helping me relocate to australia, canada or scandinavian countries, especially through humanitarian pathways • volunteer to offer consistent emotional support

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Hello everyone, my family and I are going through a difficult time. Please help us, we haven't received any support for two months 😢

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submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by YoBippo@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

Just spent 2 weeks in the ICU and was unable to work only to get out and the wheel bearing on my car has busted. I am disabled and Uber driving is my only source of income so this has left me without money for my meds or food and no way to work until it is fixed. Please anything helps and is literally lifesaving. Thank you all and God Bless ❤️

Venmo: YoBippo

Cashapp: $YoBippo

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submitted 3 days ago by Doaa@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

💙 Good news: My GoFundMe campaign is active again.

My family and I are still facing severe hardship, and your kindness helps us provide food, medicine, and other basic necessities for my eight children.

If you're able to help or share our campaign, it would mean so much to us. Thank you for standing with my family.

Primary: https://gofund.me/1d3ea05b6 Alternative: https://www.givesendgo.com/help-doaas-family-survive-and-rebuild-th

#Gaza #MutualAid #GoFundMe

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submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by DisabledAceSocialist@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

Thank you, the issue of the washing machine is resolved and I will have the new one on Tuesday!

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submitted 3 days ago by Doaa@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

Please, if you are able, don't delay your support. Every day brings new hardships, and I can no longer meet my children's basic needs for food, medicine, and other essentials.

Any contribution, no matter how small, can ease their hunger and lift a part of this heavy burden.

Support link: https://givesendgo.com/help-doaas-family-survive-and-rebuild-th

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