[-] Zink@programming.dev 2 points 4 days ago

I find the balance. They are less than a half hour drive away and we don't see them all that often.

My kid has grandparents and cousins he likes. Fortunately at most of the get-togethers at grandma's house, we tend to separate into two floors of the house. So I get to hang with my nieces and nephews and spend most of the time with walls between me and the old miserable people.

[-] Zink@programming.dev 4 points 4 days ago

That makes me think of how much it annoys me when things are really messy and disorganized in our house, which is very often.

It's like there's no indexing. Where is thing X that somebody else used last? Time to start a fresh empty-cache brute force search of the whole space!

[-] Zink@programming.dev 2 points 4 days ago

What's astonishing to me, as an American who grew up in white conservative rural and suburban areas, is that the racism is just one facet of a much larger shitty state of existence.

I see the same things IRL from ordinary people, like extended family, that I see from the people in the media who seem like hyperbolic caricatures trying to test Poe's law.

It's just an existence based in negativity. Every request has a hurried frustrated tone. Every discussion is composed entirely of complaints. The complaints about others are bigoted sure, but also very focused on money and material possessions which those other people never deserve and the speaker is neverrrrr jealous about. Personal identity is built from all the things you don't like.

I have a good relationship with my family, but they are still miserable and draining to be around.

[-] Zink@programming.dev 8 points 5 days ago

I definitely agree with you there.

Reddit, unfortunately, does not. I am not suggesting that Reddit's bad intentions necessarily make removing one's past contributions a good thing or a necessity -- but I do understand why folks might do it.

Vandalism does still feel like the wrong label though. With Reddit you are the sole creator and controller of your comments and their contents (except mod/admin actions, of course) at all times. And even though those comments are part of a larger structured collection of comments, it still isn't like a Wikipedia edit or a contribution to the Linux kernel, where a multitude of other individuals have to approve the change and can edit the exact same spot in the future.

You are definitely taking stuff away from your fellow man, and it may be a net negative for humanity, but it is still at least YOUR stuff that you are sabotaging. Usually messing up your own stuff isn't called vandalism. I think that's why we jumped on that word.

When you try to sabotage a wikipedia page or some FOSS project, that is OUR stuff that you're sabotaging, even if you created that part originally.

That was probably too much text to try to describe the manner in which I am splitting this hair, lol.

[-] Zink@programming.dev 16 points 6 days ago

Timely anecdote!

Yesterday my son asked me what AI means, and if it meant something is fake. He's young so I didn't go into the LLM distinction, just defined how "artificial" means yes it's fake, and "AI generated" just means they asked a computer to make it.

It reminds me of when everything was "cloud cloud cloud!!!" It's just other people's computers!

[-] Zink@programming.dev 1 points 6 days ago

I think you mean the concept of that existing is one of the big successes of people who debate scientific topics by flooding the conversation with rapid-fire assertions and FUD.

[-] Zink@programming.dev 10 points 6 days ago

Narcissism + recklessness + greed + privilege, filtered through a heavy layer of survivorship bias, and whatever jackass makes it to the end was apparently a bold visionary genius the whole time.

But then once they're in that club, the money and notoriety are their own advantage.

[-] Zink@programming.dev 127 points 1 month ago

Hello, friends in civilized lands, especially those of you who work at financial institutions...

Some of us in the states are excited to watch you do some damage to the entrenched middlemen that have been skimming from all of us for so long. Please do consider letting us sign up for the new stuff. Our money is still worth something, for now!

[-] Zink@programming.dev 151 points 9 months ago

My eyes almost rolled all the way out of my head reading this article. The dude is from IRAN, and this blindsided them.

To be clear, it sounds like this dude is a loving family man and member of the community, and he did not deserve this. And even if he was a scumbag, we don't use secret police to deal with scumbags.

But sometimes it hurts to have the depth of some people's oblivious ignorance revealed so starkly. Some other comments have already pointed out the stupid "golly I think there might be bad people on the left AND the right!" conclusion at the end of the article. But here's another gem from in the middle:

“My husband himself, even being from Iran, supported Trump, his immigration policies, and understood he was trying to protect the American people and was praying he helped free the Iranian people,” Gardner told Newsweek.

These people look at an elderly hateful narcissist of a grifter and parasite, and hear his messages of hate and division and exclusion, and apparently the image formed in their dusty brains is Captain Fucking Planet!

[-] Zink@programming.dev 120 points 9 months ago

Too bad there had to be an argument or disagreement…

…about whether the victim(s) crying over their dead dog in front of their burned down house deserved to live?

I wonder what the chances are that the fire, the dog skull, and the murder were all the same shithead.

[-] Zink@programming.dev 125 points 10 months ago

Notice the implied and unquestioned assumption that “life goals” means accumulating resources and not building relationships or contributing to society. In fact, it’s expected that personal relationships and societal responsibilities shall be neglected in the quest for resources.

[-] Zink@programming.dev 136 points 2 years ago

Premeditated whataboutism. Because that’s a great use of resources to benefit the country.

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