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[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Damn. The ADHD memes need to chill.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago

"...you're ~~30~~ 50"

[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

but ADHD meds don't work on me

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

How many have you tried? Also it never fixes everything, like for me it mostly just helps with maintaining focus on things, but executive function is still fucked.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Are there drugs for executive function? Asking for a friend.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

I also have a friend who is wondering the same.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

Im medicated, almost 30, and I don't get it done either

[-] [email protected] 11 points 10 hours ago

Doesn't really get much better at 50 either

[-] [email protected] 6 points 9 hours ago

it gets a lot better with treatment

[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

What's the treatment? Adderal?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago

Will have to take your word for it as I am unable to get treatment at present

[-] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

Can Confirm

[-] [email protected] 14 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

If only psychiatrists didn't do literally everything in their power to make getting an appointment as hard as possible for people who have ADHD. Same goes for social anxiety.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 11 hours ago

If I get diagnosed/medicated will things get better :c

[-] [email protected] 5 points 5 hours ago

i don’t mean this as discouragement but at least in my own personal experience, no it doesn’t.

that doesn’t mean it can never get better. just means for me getting diagnosed and taking different medications wasn’t the solution, it might not be for you either. so don’t be disappointed if you try it and it doesn’t work.

i don’t like how people hype up their prescription. just bc something works for you doesn’t mean it’ll work for everyone else, and it feels tone deaf when i see people in neurodivergent communities giving blanket “yes” answers to questions like this. it’s irresponsible and setting a large portion of people up for failure before they had a chance.

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[-] [email protected] 9 points 13 hours ago

I'm in this picture and I don't like it.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 12 hours ago

Wrong! I was only 27 when I got diagnosed 💪💪

[-] [email protected] 4 points 12 hours ago

Haha, about the same. Now 32 and feel like I'm the best I've ever been since diagnosis and medication 💪

[-] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago

Is there any way to manage symptoms without medication? Both of my brothers have ADHD and my therapist suspects that I do, too. However, I have a history of abusing adderall and being addicted to it. I don't want to ever take a prescription stimulant again and no doctor would prescribe me one anyway because of my history.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

I am unmedicated with ADHD. Specifically for symptoms my go-to is lions mane mushroom supplements (I use "RealMushrooms", note that quality actually matters, and these have been consistent in my experience) and ginkgo biloba. Usually 500mg lions mane, 120mg ginkgo per dose. Lions mane sometimes a second dose later in the day, but it can be a little overstimulating. Ginkgo is recommended up to 3x a day.

It's been my go-to pairing for years, and it makes a noticeable difference, especially if I take a break from it.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 12 hours ago

There are non stimulants like straterra (atomoxetine) which is an SNRI (same family as anti depressants)

Personally I find it extremely effective and much more stable in terms of daily functioning.

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[-] [email protected] 15 points 18 hours ago

I stopped caring about “getting my life together”. All it means to me is being a nice little cog in the soul crushing machine. I take care of the absolute minimum on a day by day basis and use what’s leftover to have fun and do what I want to. I figure by the time it catches up to me, the world will have really gone to shit. If somehow the state of things actually improve, either it’ll be a world that treats people with adhd better or I’ll go out on my own terms.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago
[-] [email protected] 33 points 21 hours ago

You are young and life is long and there is time to kill today

And then one day you find ten years have got behind you

No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun

[-] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago

Used to love this song and listen to this band so much in my late teens/early 20s. I do remember with these lyrics wondering at that time if that's how it would go. Funny to get to my 30s now and be like, "yep, hard relate"

[-] [email protected] 7 points 18 hours ago

Such a good song. Kind of fucked up to listen to on a morning commute tho xD

[-] [email protected] 22 points 19 hours ago

Try 45 and but yes I agree.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 19 hours ago

51 and yes. I bet we can go higher.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago

I think we've got to get in at least 10,000

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[-] [email protected] 32 points 21 hours ago

Just working on diagnosis at 50. You're lucky if you worked it out by 30.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 20 hours ago

I'm 53 and have been questioning it for a few years. I just have to make that doctor's appointment to ask about it . That's my goal for next week. It was also my goal last week, last month, and the last couple years... one day/week at a time.

After my morning coffee everything sounds like a great idea, but it's too early in the morning to do anything about it because that window of time is designated peaceful quiet moment before I have to work. I'll just do it this afternoon after work...

[-] [email protected] 6 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

I just found out yesterday that I am Bipolar, have severe anxiety and depression, PTSD and likely ADHD but it'll take a while to figure out cause they all have overlapping symptoms. Apparently I've been playing as a beginner on expert mode all along. Getting actual diagnosis for these things is a while thing unto itself where I live. It's not real easy to get a psychologist unless you pay out of pocket. I don't have money for that.

It took a long time. Had to quit booze. Straighten up my life some. Have a family to care about. Almost die from crazy cancer. Before I made the calls. Don't beat yourself up too bad.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 20 hours ago

Got mine less than a year ago at 41. My whole fucked up life makes sense.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 19 hours ago

It's crazy how it all makes so much sense that I've always wanted to just live in a cabin in the woods and exist.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago

Just moved to far northern Maine, myself. It’s a house, not a cabin, but I have 10 acres of land, and almost nobody in Maine feels the need to fuck with you. Everyone wants to do their own thing, and be left alone, so everybody leaves everyone else alone. I feel like I have come home.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I'm your northern neighbor. I live in nowhere land on the east coast of Canada. A house/homestead on 250 acres of forest land. With another 250 acres behind me of just trees. We have a little hand built log cabin in the middle as a getaway and "retirement" pad so we can give the house to the kids so they have somewhere to live. I'm pretty solitary now as an old fella aside from my family.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago

I'm in that cabin. Slowly pushing the outside world as far away as I can get it, while maintaining access to hospitals and whatnot.

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[-] [email protected] 48 points 1 day ago

It never changes either. I'm past 40 and I'm still like "I'll get my life together next year. Or the one after that, surely!"

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 16 hours ago

I have a diagnosis but meds didn't work, possibly because i live a pretty much sheltered life and was never forced into work, i did some jobs but i never lasted more than a year. The last 3 years i spent smoking weed and postponing my waking up. Now i'm trying psychotherapy again and i've been prescribed efexor.

But i feel more hopeless and spent than ever. I can't feel interest nor curiosity about anything. Social interactions are pain, and what's worse is that even with my closest friends it is now like that. I just feel like I'm not interested or capable of conversing with them, cause I feel no interest in any thing anymore....

[-] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago

I’m not a doctor, but what you’re describing sounds very much like clinical depression to me. So I’m wondering if maybe your dose of Effexorneeds to be adjusted. Again, I am not a medical professional in any way shape or form also, for me personally, I was smoking weedfor the first six months after I got diagnosed in addition to taking the Adderall. The weed almost completely Counteracted all the beneficial effects of the Adderall. Once I got off it, I am not my best self that I have ever been. don’t drink I don’t smoke. I don’t do any of that stuff anymore and I no longer feel the urge.

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[-] [email protected] 7 points 19 hours ago

30 is as great a time to start as any

[-] [email protected] 13 points 21 hours ago
[-] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago

I didn't get diagnosed until my 50's. Now starting to get a grip on things.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 18 hours ago

I brought it up to my doctor and got a referral to get a diagnosis, finally. That was 4 years ago. I need to ask again for another referral but keep forgetting/not being able to, while im there. If I can bring myself to do it, I might just ask my doctor to help me make the appointment while im there. :P

[-] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

Make yourself a calendar reminder now while your thinking about it

[-] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago

It is just so tiring sometimes

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