Its been about eight months since I broke things off with my ex-fiance. For months preceding and for months after I was terrified it would hurt her so bad she might break. Idk if that's the right term. Regardless, I knew it had to happen and "prayed" we'd both be better off the on the other side. Or at least she'd eventually be OK.
It was rough going for awhile but it slowly got better for the both of us. Definitely not linearly though, up and down for sure. I'm really proud of her, she's now doing things that she loves, things she wasn't doing the last few years while we were together.
I'm proud of myself, and im proud of you too. The preceding months, weeks, days, minutes seconds before I ended it, and for a bit after, was the most agonizing time of my life, by far. How could I hurt someone I was supposed to protect, love and support, someone that I did, for many years, and still do to a lesser extent, and hurt them more than I've ever hurt anyone before? It sucked.
I'm not saying it'll all be smooth sailing, or will work out the way you hope, but despite feeling the way you did, and how you feel now, you still made the decision to end things.
So give yourself some credit, some love, some trust. Trust the decision that you made was the right one, even if it might not always feel that way.
Lol I saw this one in the wild.
Absolutely absurd.
I'll bet my left ass cheek this millionaire is paying over the market average for rent. I'll be generous in her "thriftyness" and call it 2k.
So 24,000 a year. Ober 7 years, 168k
Almost bought a place an hour out of Seattle, probably tacoma. Homegirl isnt living in dupont. According to this website.
https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/ATNHPIUS45104Q
Avg home price in tacoma 2024: 450k 2017: 250k
Let's be super generous, say she dropped an extra 150k in maintenence/tax/costs etc Still up a cool 100k
They telling me her diversified investments of 250k made 268k in profit?
Yeah ok.