I don't know how some people stay on [big social media] while constantly hating being on [big social media].

Two men are talking. One says "I hate social media now. Its all ads and ragebait." The second man says "why not the fediverse? Its community ran and not focused on engagement metrics so its..." The first man cuts him off, "Nah, I'm done signing up for any social media. Everything I've been on is just to toxic." Then the man continues to doomscroll on social media.

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[–] 2 points 2 hours ago

Weird thing to post on Lemmy, a place dominated by engagement metrics.

Also, why is the guy who quit all social media "doom scrolling"? Doomscrolling what? An RSS feed?

Good for him, tbh.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 hours ago (1 child)

    In what fucking dream world isn't fediverse filled with ragebait?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 hour ago

    The comic leaves out the whole "joining the right server and communities for you" part. If nobody tells you before joining, then you see a bunch of horrible stuff. If someone does tell you before joining, then it's a daunting prospect.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 hours ago

    To be fair, I see a bit of ragebait occasionally on the fediverse too.

    I've also seen a lot of smaller communities bend their own rules presumably for the sake of engagement as well. No ads is nice though and having real people around is also wonderful.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 hours ago (1 child)

    I’m sick of all this Internet, causing all these problems

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  • [–] 3 points 4 hours ago

    I didn't do anything special to my feed, but out of the bat it's so much more depressing, rage inducing, and sensational. And the comments are way more...polarizing so to speak. There is more genuine people here than on Reddit, but every time I scroll here I stop because my heartbeat goes up. If Reddit is 50% bots doing ads and 40% ragebait, here all the ads are replaced by pure concentrated ragebait.

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  • [–] 12 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

    I doomscroll on the Fediverse, thank you very much.

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  • [–] 13 points 17 hours ago

    Well, Lemmy on Voyager is just doom scrolling and toxic with less content. I must be missing something if it is otherwise.

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  • [–] 26 points 20 hours ago (4 children)

    Fediverse isn't all that great though despite all the cope, scroll through all and you see that it's 50% news slop about how US conservatives bad that's designed to keep you scrolling, 35% porn, 5% leftoid memes and 10% for everything else, pretty much like reddit minus the copious amount of rightoids. The culture is also pretty much the same.

    Engagement and upvote hunting also does play a role, else there wouldn't be people who make posting their day job or (as of late) bots automatically scraping popular posts from reddit to post here.

    Like sure it's decentralized, but what good does it do when it's almost the same in content as the bad platform it denounces?

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  • [–] 1 point 3 hours ago

    have you tried different instances? piefed.social blocks nsfw/nsfl as well as ragebait political figures' names by default.

    at any rate most of the complaints people have with reddit aren't about its content, they're about its slimy ass leadership, powertripping mods, and AI infestation. fediverse isn't immune to any of that but it hasn't metastasized here at least.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 hours ago*

    On the fediverse you can hold real conversations with people in comments. That rarely happens on Reddit.

    However as the fediverse grows, even as we are seeing in this thread, it becomes increasingly impossible.

    edit Wow there really are a lot of comments here. Are people botting these or are we reaching this real level of interaction? Forget about upvotes or views this is crazy.

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  • [–] 66 points 1 day ago (16 children)

    Most people I talk to pretend like it's too complex. They're upset about a single company controlling their social media, but scared about not having that.

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  • [–] 31 points 1 day ago (9 children)

    I gave up trying once I realized the large majority of humans today dont know what a filepath is.

    I'll retreat to my cave now.

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    [–] 57 points 1 day ago (6 children)

    I was very frustrated at everyone getting mad at twitter, and then going to bluesky instead of mastodon.

    At a certain point, once everyone is there everyone else has to go there.

    I will say fedi right now has a pretty good vibe. Some of the more negative/angry people have left and its been a chill little community lately.

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  • [–] -1 points 4 hours ago (1 child)

    The truth is, it’s the most balanced people who left. Most people who remain are deep in the echo chamber, which is why it seems more chill: everyone agrees with you and the ones with realistic opinions have left.

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    [–] 29 points 1 day ago (9 children)

    The trouble is, there's a bunch of awful people on the fediverse too.

    I have absolutely no appetite for requiring ID to use social media, but the anonymity in any social media platform, regardless of its popularity, brings out the worst in some people.

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  • [–] 36 points 1 day ago (5 children)

    More folks need to get comfortable with the block button. I have a list of users blocked for being shitty, but there sometimes seems to be this weird mentality that blocking users instead of debating them is weak or something.

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    [–] 21 points 23 hours ago (21 children)

    Fedi does suck in your not into tech or leftist politics. Those are where the bulk of the content comes from. The memes can be funny sometimes but the lack of video clips really holds it back. People love short video clips but they're expensive to host. Catbox.moe is a good solution but you're still pretty restricted in the size of clips you can upload.

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  • [–] 14 points 20 hours ago (1 child)

    tech or leftist politics

    because that's what the public that uses it likes.

    bluesky was probably worse before the migration. more people = more content.

    i do like its left bias and wish we keep it though. breath or fresh air from fascist-owned social media.

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