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submitted 18 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) by catonion@lemmygrad.ml to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

hey tldr my gf is going through withdrawals. this was the fastest way to get help last time which uh i can eat now my meds are working so ty

we're both csa survivors. informed consent is vital. rehab was not good. the therapist was not trauma-informed. most rehabs are a "one size fits all" so they classify her as "dangerous" bc she lashes out when they touch her IF THEY WERE TRAUMA INFORMED THEY WOULD KNOW WHEN TO AND WHEN NOT TO TOUCH HER

15 years of drug dependency, 30+ detox attempts (bc none of these fckers are trauma informed), kindling effect, tapering, if you know you know.

idk how to get her money. she has paypal but i know that's not anonymous enough. idk what to do i dont want her to die

edit: ok im calm now. im using my PP account this is my email: iaramorticia@pm.me

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soypoint-1 whataboutism soypoint-2

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[-] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 4 points 17 hours ago

Bump amber what about ism

And thank you for being honest about what the need is. It takes a strong person to just outright say that's what the need is. But as someone that's detoxed from a lot of downers, I will never let another person suffer those withdrawals. I PM'd you

I don't know where you live, but y'all should look into Kratom. Very good for opiate withdrawal, good for hangovers, pretty much gives me what people seek in methadone or subs.

[-] catonion@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 14 hours ago

idk ppl should know what they're donating to AND SAME, i know withdrawals from 5 years of substance usage, i cant even begin to image what it's like to go through 10+ of it. also she's monetarily dependent on the people that harmed her as a child. she's on disability btw but 80% of the money goes to rent

[-] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 1 points 13 hours ago

Yeah that can be really difficult, I'm sorry. I'm glad you love her enough to stick with her through what are likely her worst times.

Waiting on the phone carrier to call me back so I can setup esim and get into my account

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[-] ourtimewillcome@hexbear.net 2 points 17 hours ago

bump this to the top

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[-] ourtimewillcome@hexbear.net 2 points 18 hours ago

bumping this post

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