I wouldn't say weird. You can enjoy your music however you want.
Personally i wouldn't be able to do it, having ADHD and sitting still doesn't really go together.
I wouldn't say weird. You can enjoy your music however you want.
Personally i wouldn't be able to do it, having ADHD and sitting still doesn't really go together.
Same here. I think walking and listening to music also qualifies as "just listening to music" for me, and I find it quite easy and enjoyable. I don't think the sitting part is all that important, only the "just listen to music" part.
If you have adhd I suggest getting a good quality IEM or headphones. I can sit still and just listen to music if it’s layered and lush and have myself fully stimulated trying to piece everything.
I thought that's exactly what we pretentious audiophiles do.
I don't appreciate being called out like this
I do. Hi, everybody!
I mean, it wasnt uncommon that normal families just did this as well , thats why many of us always had good listening setups in the living room.
Now they are usually relegated to the basement and only listened to by crazy ol gramps.
I swear this is a reason for growing depression , among other things. Music is one of humanities strongest past times, and the majority of humans now dont give a shit and put it on as background noise with 0 care.
I blame parents.
Does vaping weed count as "doing something else"?
About as much as "sitting in a comfy chair".
Converting ethanol into urea is one of my favorite activities
What about acid? 👀
Reserved for Tangerine Dream , Ozric Tentacles , and Pink Floyd
I “metaltate” several times a week. Dark room, closed eyes, focus on breathing, and headphones with black metal.
One of my earliest memories of listening to music was in exactly this style.
Our family inherited a mobile trailer that was parked in our front yard for a while. I was a young kid and would use the trailer as “my house”.
I distinctly remember plopping down a boombox on the “kitchen table”, which was just a fold out table with a chair on either side.
I popped in Dr. Dre’s Da Chronic into the cassette deck of the boombox and hit play. Listening to the whole album while sitting on the chair.
Fun times. Stop worrying about how other people consume entertainment and just do what feels good to you.
I think everyone should try to only listen, at least sometimes. We've been trained to need input constantly and we're not built for it. People can't just watch TV any more either, need more screens!
...you've made me realise I actually havent done this in so long
Yeah same. Time to grab the ole trusty Moody Blues
No I do this also
As many others have already said, you are definitely not weird for it. If thats what you enjoy, don't let others take it from you just because they might consider it weird.
For me personally, I do both. Sometimes I listen to background music while doing other things. As someone said above, its like elevator music. However, for me it improves the mood for some tasks.
On the other hand, I sit down maybe three times a week just for listening to music. I fully follow the emotions and story of a song or album.
The music is quite different between these two modes. For the background music I just need some good tunes. When listening fully, the song must have a text I like or be a really good instrumental song. Then I also need the right song and order of songs depending on mood. Mostly it's a curated list from which i select song by song. If I hear a great song in background listening I add it to the list. Later I listen to a
more songs of the album or artist with full attention and add the ones I enjoy to my list. Funnily there are songs which then have so much meaning for me, I cannot listen to them in background anymore. Either I skip them or i put my full attention to them.
For me listening to music and dancing are a joint experience. Setting still while listening feels offensive somehow. My body just kinda moves on is own.
I do, but not with headphones. If it's headphones, it's second to something else. If the activity is specifically listening to music, I'm doing it on the good speakers.
Sometimes but never in headphones. In the living room right in the stereo spot on the couch. Mostly I listen and do, but sometimes just listen.
reading this thread made me realize why music visualizers were so popular
Doing something as in having a coffee or not doing anything at all ? I'll have a coffee or a drink and listen, at most eat a light meal.
I'm weird in that I can't listen to music and do something else because I can't.. listen I mean, it's just noise in the background, like elevator music, so why bother? and listening while running, walking or cycling is beyond me as there's so much going on and you need so much situational awareness when engaged in those avtivities.
That’s not weird at all. It’s very enjoyable.
I quite rarely listen to music but sometimes I just want to hear one or two songs and then I often just sit and listen.
Both actually. BUT the type of music I listen to changes drastically depending on my activity.
I do the same, but with my turntable
Both. The distinction being when working I listen to albums or a stream, when listening only, it's by the song.
depends. I have music on like 90% of the time. Sometimes I like to put headphones or quality speakers on and close my eyes and really pay attention to the music. Otherwise it's daily activities or kareoke
Thanks for the replies, all. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one who does this! I find it very therapeutic, and I enjoy being able to really focus on the lyrics and the music itself. My high school band teacher taught us that music is not a spectator sport - if you're only hearing sounds, you're missing out on half the experience. :)
Have to do something else. I mostly listen to new albums when doing cardio at the gym, or when playing multiplayer vidya.
I can't. Music just doesn't interact with enough senses to be a standalone activity for me.
My brother though, could spend the whole day doing nothing but listening to music.
I can't, because of adhd. If I want to listen to a whole album I put it on headphones and go for a walk.
People experience music differently. If I'm going to listen to music, I have to sit there and actively listen to it. If music is playing when I'm trying to work on something, I have to turn it off, it's too distracting.
Same. For me, listening to music is an active experience that takes up my brain slot. I can't do something else while listening to music. Eg, many people study better with music, or do coding with music. That's impossible for me. Exceptions are when I'm driving with the radio on, or walking to the train station with my earphones in.
I need something to engage my hands and eyes. If I want to just sit and listen to music, or an audiobook, or podcast I usually play Tetris. It's a really low engagement task that keeps me from zoning out. Starting to get tired it though so I'm open to recommendations for similar games.
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I recently got an adult paint by numbers from a clearance rack at a hobby store. I’ve put WAY more time into it than I expected. I’m really loving having it to do while doing other more mentally engaging things.
I do both but I'm usually doing something because of ADHD. Sometimes it's something mindless. My favorite time to listen to music is while walking around the city
I do this sometimes, especially when I am stressed out and just need time to relax and forget everything for a while by immersing myself in whatever I'm listening to. Same with just sitting on public transport. Sometimes, I just stare out the window, and everything I hear is just sound because I'm just in the moment. I'd otherwise be on my phone like everyone else.
No, you're not weird.
I do it sometimes, but mainly for music I really enjoy or have a keen interest in. Technically I also did it for a music competition a few months ago but that probably doesn't count...
There is research on this btw! I had to dig a bit, but this is a 2011 research article (might be paywalled, I can try & help if anyone is really interested in) on why people (psych undergrads, but still) listen to music. They identified 6 mostly independent factors, one of which ("personal identity") may be more linked to ppl listening just for enjoyment; one of their experiments showed that 75.66% of participants listen to music as "background noise". So music as primary activity is probably relatively uncommon (but not non-existent). Funnily enough I rarely use music as background distraction these days
All the time. Its wonderful.
I think it's not as common as it used to be. Now there are endless forms of distractions through small screens, and I think most use music as background entertainment while doing something else.
I can listen to music while doing other things, but I prefer to actually listen while not distracted so I can fully take in the phonics and arrangements. Otherwise it's merely hearing and not listening. I find that this distinction is more common with musically inclined people.
I dance and/or sing while listening to music because I'm not dead. 👍
It's the best way to analyze a track or just let my brain juices flow and just think or plan or just drift into the aether.
If I'm just a passenger in a vehicle, I don't mind sitting back and just listening to music. Otherwise, I'm so used to doing something else while listening that it feels kinda weird to not have it as background when I'm working, when appropriate.
I love music so much I have it on almost all of the time, but I admit, I'm almost always doing something else too.
Very rarely do I just listen to music, typically only when I'm driving.
I used to do that all the time in my teenage years. I would buy a CD Album, go home, play it on my stereo, listen through the entire album while reading the lyrics or Look at the art in that little Booklet that came with the album.
Or i would just play an album, lie on my bed and just listen.
Nowadays i mostly listen to music while working or driving. I dont have a stereo and no space to have one. I would like to have a "music corner" it like Rob in High fidelity.
I do it. I miss having linear, defined "playlists" we used to call listening to an album. So, duh, you can still do it. I play curated playlists when I'm driving. If something catches my attention, I go to that song's album (please don't be a single, please don't be a single). If the album plays through well, I'll probably give it a go at home.
Granted, sitting still is not my strong suit, so it's not all that common. Video games are my main TV/couch thing if solo. I always have some other chore or project nagging me. But damn, is it relaxing to lightly hit a thc vape and play deadmau5
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