I have taken my kids to some pretty small concerts, that they asked for rides to, that garage band scene is still around it's just not our scene anymore, right? The main difference I found is that my kids wanted to share the music with me, wanted me to go see it with them and my God I would never have done that with my mom.

So thankful they grew up and do wear stupid clothes (and sometimes awesome costumes for conventions). In our family there's a gender split - the boys & men including the trans one are less about going out, the girls & women are all more into going out to shows & events.

That's an impossible question.

The best live shows I ever saw in my life were Fela Kuti, Henry Rollins.

Right now I love Fontaines DC, Joshua Ray Walker, Leon Bridges as recording artists.

Favorite old album is Silk Degrees, but I wouldn't say I love Boz Scaggs, just that one album is so ridiculously good.

Favorite new album definitely Romance, Fontaines DC.

Best 'underrated' J Roddy Walston & the Business, their live shows and records were amazing.

Can't say I have a favorite band though.

We saw them here, and yeah what a great live act!

Dogs don't work like that. A dog gets protective when it's anxious, and thinks it has to be in charge because you are ineffective. If your dog is relaxed and looks to you to protect it, you are doing a good job of raising your dog.

Dog park, I dunno, but "standing up to other dogs' just sounds like asking for a dog fight. Playing dogs are not necessarily jockeying for dominance but even if they are it doesn't mean they can't all have fun, without being mean.

I agree that even good, happy dogs can have a nose for danger, our awesome shep-akita was pleasant with adults and gentle giant with other dogs but once was so growly snappy with a girl my stepdaughter brought home and she did steal something. The dog picked up on her we did not.

I always figured it was nature trying not to breed us into a race of giants, or midgets. I'm a lady and about the average height of men in my area (which my husband points out puts me in the top 5% of women's height here even though I'm barely even tall) and mostly have dated men around my height. My ex was about my height and our kids were all average height. Husband also around my height. My husband's ex was a lot shorter than him and his boys are not as tall as me, and I tease him, if he wanted tall kids he needed a tall mom.

So I guess if she had her kids with a tall guy they would have been average height but I never had to think about that, right? But if my kids dad had been really tall my kids would be like Really Tall, maybe more than is healthy?

I know nobody is having kids anymore, lol, but the preferences could be hard wired to some extent.

Also - if only 5% of women are my height or taller, there probably just aren't enough of us around even if we wanted to breed giants.

I am on team cast iron, nonstick coatings always seem to be problematic. Cast iron gets better and better with time, and I cook with fats, so it works for me. Buy once use forever, other pans have come and gone but my cast iron is still here and my kids argue about who will get it when I die.

But as I'm sure others have already noted, technique makes a big difference too - oil into hot pan, food into hot oil and not moving the food at the beginning helps it release.

I have a big family and cannot understand thinking everyone else in the world needs to do the same thing to make me feel ok about it. Like, how insecure do you have to be to need that? Can't you just do what you want to because it's your preference without needing it to be the only 'right' way? Just because something is good for me doesn't mean it's good for everyone, and it's a good thing, too. I figured the only reason I even can have many is because others have none.

Yes. My kids would laugh at me when I worked from home because I would not stop typing when I looked up to answer something they were asking me. I suck on the phone keyboard but good with QUERTY big keyboard. My fingers can talk on those

Viking! Watch out, here I come!

Florida. It's this plant, nopales are the leaves, tuna is the fruit. Also the whole plant and the fruit are called prickly pear, but when I see it for sale (as food), it's Tuna. Nopales taste sort of like green peppers to me.

Opuntia - Wikipedia https://share.google/l2Ax80KhUVxMh7r7A

Well, where I live, Tuna is also a cactus. Prickly pear is often called tuna. So yeah, tuna (fish) and tuna (fruit) can need disambiguation.

For me, it's just such a rare treat to have time to myself, so I like it. If you mean without a partner or family, I dunno either, I did enjoy being alone in that way too. I guess I think if you aren't happy with yourself, you aren't going to fix that by being with someone else.

If it's literal loneliness, I would say make sure to build habits that involve others. Go to yoga class, don't do it at home. Go get coffee every morning at the same local place. Walk your dog, sit on your front step. Get a job that isn't done at home. Be in the world, don't isolate yourself.