[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

I would like to experience something new, so would go with magic. As long as it's not too wrapped up in religion. I've enjoyed my arc here, but don't need to repeat it - and safe from being a chosen one is itself a perk.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

I scrolled by and read this as "crows" not cows. Either way I agree.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Affogato plus a whole bottle of vodka (I cannot countenance the gin suggestion)

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I like your list & would recommend

Black Science.
Monstress

I also enjoyed

Elephantmen.
Low.
East of West. Hickman in general is good.

Anything by Mike Carey - if you like Sandman you will like Lucifer, and he also did Darkness Visible, Highest House and some mainstream stuff.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago

Wow, 4 servings in a bottle of vodka is insane. I would do this but absolutely with whiskey or rum or even an añejo tequila not vodka or gin. And half as much of it. And then call it 8 servings!

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago

Meaning you can't empathize? Lucky you, I guess. I had so much anxiety around eating for so long, and it's not unusual. Until I was 25, never put one piece of food in my mouth without thinking about the calories and how it would make me fat. I'm sure she looks in the mirror and still sees fat.

Yes more people have eating disorders in the other direction, and will eat when stressed. I have trouble wrapping my mind around that. It's been half my lifetime since I recovered but I still can't eat when stressed.

It's heartbreaking and eventually fatal if you keep restricting. Skinny is not automatically unhealthy, body types do differ.

There's plenty of pressure on women to be small, and when your life is out of control, one thing you can control is eating. It is oddly easy to fall into disordered territory.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

Yeah that was my vampire age - like if I could have stayed any age, 45 was it. Looked so good, felt so good. Sex drive like a teenager (maybe nature trying to make me reproduce before menopause?). I do think that may be the physical peak. Like, I still feel really good but 45 was it.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

Ha! How long are you planning to be old? That is insane. If you are old at 40 you could be old for over half your life!

I am near 60. I bike to work, work over 40 hours a week, do yoga 4 days a week, lift twice a week. Definitely slower, can't run but not really old yet, as far as I can tell. I think very old is over 75 usually - that's when people start to feel like they have lived long, and start really seeing people they know die of old age.

And if I am going to live to 90, as the statistics seem to think, I can't really be OLD until I am like 80.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago

Yeah we try to get everyone! Sometimes the parents of the boyfriends/girlfriends of our kids show up too, even the kids who moved away, or any 'orphans' from my work. Everyone brings something. My ex MIL brings thanksgiving (like literally I think she makes a turkey too and just doesn't bring it) I can never figure out if she is trying to show me up or what but it means I can make vegan versions of sides for the vegans, so it works out.

I cook for like 3 days to stage it but once done I let others set it out and clean up too. I just sit down, have a drink, and eat and hang out. Of course there's always more cleanup at the end but worth it.

Highly recommend consolidating it if you have the space. So much fun.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 7 points 15 hours ago

Thanksgiving at my house. My kids, my husband's kids, my in-laws, my siblings, my ex and his family too (I was friends with his brother before I knew him and his mom is still my kids' grandma) and when my mom was alive she came too.

I honestly love parties like that. It's utter chaos. But fun.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Well I'm more than 25+25 and would not want to be 25 either but don't worry, it will only last a year. Just hang on.

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Beach Cruiser (thelemmy.club)

1 oz tequila blanco

1/2 oz each mezcal, Campari, passion fruit syrup, ginger syrup and lime.

Squirt of fire tincture

Shake these together and add 1-2 oz IPA beer.

I had to substitute apricot liqueur for the passion fruit and it's really good so I suspect anything fruity would be fine. Beer I used is Jai Alai and only 1 oz, I don't like it but as an ingredient in here can't taste it, must add something though. This is bitter in a great way, somehow not too sweet, I went a little heavy on the lime but close to the 1/2 oz. If you do like beer I think you could safely increase it past the 2 oz and still have something really nice.

The rainy season is finally here too. So happy to be out here watching the rain.

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Legolas on the bike (thelemmy.club)
submitted 2 weeks ago by RBWells@lemmy.world to c/cat@lemmy.world

Biker kitty!

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Duplicate post (thelemmy.club)
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Biker kitty!

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Suggest a mocktail? (lemmy.world)

I am halfway through the Dry July and would like to celebrate but at a loss. I have the following ingredients, and define non alcoholic as non intoxicating not completely alcohol free, so splash of something ok.

N/A liqueurs:

Pathfinder

Seedlip Spice

Other:

Coffee

Coconut water, coconut cream

Tepache de piña

Enough pineapple to make a little pineapple juice

Strawberries

Tonic water

Yuzu lime tonic water

Ginger, lemon, lime, bitters

A pretty full bar, and a small amount of good red wine.

Considering just Pathfinder in tonic, that ends up like Chinola soda. But with all this I just feel like it could be more interesting!

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The Guillotine (robbreport.com)

In celebration of today, I present the Guillotine. Old Fashioned variations are always too sweet for me but with extra lemon zest as advised, it goes on the list for August. I will probably be stirring a lemon slice in it.

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So, what are you drinking this weekend? It's tepache for me tonight!

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Dirty Ranch Water (www.texasmonthly.com)

Taking July off (I do dry July every year) but this is going on the list for August!

1 lime

1 spoonful Tajin

2 oz tequila

1/2 oz jalapeno brine

Bottle of Topo Chico

Quarter the lime and use one quarter to make a tajin rim on a glass. Mix the juice of the rest of the lime, the tequila, the brine in the glass, add ice, top with topo chico, keep topping off the glass till it's gone. Then, as is traditional, start over :)

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Not baked, but (thelemmy.club)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by RBWells@lemmy.world to c/sourdough@lemmy.world

Sourdough donuts

Used the recipe on Perfect Loaf, way too long to detail here but the ingredients are, for 18 of them (he always has these weird odd measurements like 101, I do often round them with no ill effect but will write them as the recipe states):

203 g very active starter 100% hydration

253 g all purpose white flour

253 g strong white bread flour

187g eggs - use extra yolk to adjust to this weight

101 g butter

101 g white sugar

91 g water

10 g salt

It takes a couple days to finish these (I start Friday midnight to get Sunday morning donuts) but most of that time is waiting not working).

Couple of notes- he says the final rise takes 12 hours but that must be in a cold climate, here in the subtropics it took about 7 to be perfect. And when he says careful attention to shaping he means it, but it's easy if you keep the dough chilled, with the butter in the dough it's not too sticky. Don't be afraid to really stretch it when forming the little dough balls, you want a tight surface all over. If you can shape buns, and your starter is robust, this is about a foolproof recipe.

https://www.theperfectloaf.com/naturally-leavened-bomboloni-doughnuts/

I can't see the picture in the header, hopefully you can. Will put below too.

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Leña (thelemmy.club)

1 oz tequila claro (Tequila Ocho, la mejor)

1/2 oz mezcal

1/2 oz Luxardo Bitter Bianco (see note)

1/4 oz Ancho Reyes rojo

1 oz fresh pineapple juice (see note)

3/4 oz fresh lime juice

1/3 oz agave nectar (again, see note)

Shake all with ice, pour into chilled rocks glass over fresh ice. It is delicious.

Notes: I don't have that luxardo, used half Campari half bitter rhubarb liqueur; doubled the pineapple juice because I literally just made it and it's amazing. This doesn't need 1/3 oz of agave, less is better. Finally - it was quite difficult to make one of these with those teeny measurements. I would recommend making two at a time.

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Nui Nui (www.foodandwine.com)

Has anyone made this? I have no allspice dram, to me this looks like a recipe that would make a fantastic pitcher drink for Thanksgiving, it reads fall with the cinnamon & allspice.

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submitted 1 month ago by RBWells@lemmy.world to c/support@lemmy.world

When you have a minute can you transfer the community to !hcsothrowaway@lemmy.world he should be the main moderator, I will be the secondary. Tagging him in this comment but we are already agreed on it.

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Minor Demon (thelemmy.club)

1.5 oz rye (Emerald Giant overproof)

0.5oz each of mezcal, Aperol, and Ancho Reyes (rojo)

1 oz lemon juice

Squirt of agave

Shake all with ice, and I would say serve up in a coupe but it's summer, still 90f at 19:00. So I'm having it on ice, and just enjoying the hot weather.

Variation on a Devil's Soul. It would benefit from a float of the Heirloom Pineapple Amaro (and being served up), but had enough oddball ingredients I didn't want to add another. But if you have it, go for it.

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