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Anyone else dual diagnosis? (piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone)
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[-] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

That's not special.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

My fiance loses stuff all the time so she got a Tile (a locator gadget) for her keys and wallet. It has a phone mode too in the app, and it goes off when activated, even if it's on silent. The trick is you need another phone with the app too, of course, but that's easy enough for us to deal with.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 10 hours ago

if android, just google "where is my phone" and it will tell you where your phone is and give a button to force it to ring even if silent.

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[-] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago

That's not autism. That's getting spam calls ten to twenty times a day.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago

This is the main reason I have a smart watch.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago

Yeah, I'm neither autistic nor do I have ADHD, but I've definitely misplaced my phone. Since grabbing a smart watch for the purpose of fitness, I've discovered the benefit of "find my phone," saving me the step of having to go to my computer and type "where my phone" into the goog.

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[-] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago

I don't have autism and I still do that.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 18 hours ago

i am happy to only have autism. if you get a chance to pick, choose autism

[-] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago

I'm not entirely convinced they are different things

[-] [email protected] 24 points 23 hours ago

I figured out recently that you can set individual contacts to ignore silent mode, so they always ring. This is extreme power, so be careful who you choose.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 23 hours ago

Only my partner has this honor. mostly so she can help me find my phone lol (and emergencies obviously, but we are rarely apart outside of work)

[-] [email protected] 3 points 19 hours ago

Exactly the same here, lol.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 22 hours ago

I bought an Apple Watch for exercise and the best feature I didn’t know existed is a little button that I can press to audibly ping my phone, even when it’s on silent.

…I get more use out of that than the exercise features nowadays.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago

Imagine if you didn't have the watch, all those calories burned while searching for your phone...

I feel you, I have a smart watch too. I can see how few steps I've taken, how low my blood oxygen level is, and best of all, how few hours I've slept.

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[-] [email protected] 7 points 21 hours ago

Ouch. Way too close to home.

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

If the screen lights up, that's still sometimes enough to find it.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Or the buzzing of the vibration. At least, that's what I listen for in this scenario. The only time I put the sound on for my phone is when I know there's a call coming that I have to listen for.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Sometimes that's even vibrations are disabled though. Not usually the case, but it's not really silent if it's on vibrate imo anyways.

If I'm waiting for a phone call, I often just turn music on and use that being interrupted to know I'm getting a call.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago

Ha ha I only ever put it on silent when I'm playing music on a Bluetooth speaker so that incoming alerts don't disrupt the music.

I literally never remember to turn it off silent.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago

If you're on android, try the do not disturb function maybe? it has a timer option so it's automatically back to normal after i.e. an hour or two.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 11 hours ago

Yeah on iOS I have to put it on focus or else notification sounds keep playing.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

Silence, plus DnD, plus everything muted. If my phone emits a sound without my request I have an immediate response to fight the phone back.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago

To the subject of original meme, Tile on keys made my life a hundred times easier

[-] [email protected] 6 points 22 hours ago

Not officially, but I’m diagnosed ADHD and for now, self-diagnosed autistic

I managed to finally save up enough money to put myself on a waitlist to get called to setup an appointment to start my autism assessment in several months from now, so…yay?

[-] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago

Absolutely yay!

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Trifecta actually. Adhd, autism and I am also trans :3

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[-] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago

My type of person! Same!

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[-] [email protected] 4 points 22 hours ago

I plan to set my spouse's number to always audibly ring. Someday it will happen and then I'll never have to search again!

[-] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago

Someday because the spouse is missing or because you can't pull yourself together to set it up?

[-] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Hahaha, in this context I can say it's thankfully my inability to do it

[-] [email protected] 4 points 23 hours ago

Off topic: Google's "find my phone" bypasses silent mode.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

Also, you can access the website from any device with a web browser. The same goes for Apple.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 18 hours ago

It also shows its location on a map if you have tracking on, which was useful the time it slipped under my truck's floor mat.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago

Ringing your phone from my watch is one of the greatest features. On the Apple Watch just a tap of the button rings it, pressing and holding flashes the LED.

Plus now the watch and the phone have the how far away the phone is thing and it works great.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 22 hours ago

This is why Find My has been a godsend for me. It'll ring no matter how many layers of Do Not Disturb you put your phone under. It'll still ring (unless the battery has run out, of course).

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

You can trigger the ‘find phone’ function on your Apple Watch. The phone will make a sound and your watch shows a live view of how far away the phone is and a general direction.

[-] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

Ah yes, for all of the Lemmy FOSS enthusiasts with their Apple products /s :)

[-] [email protected] 7 points 23 hours ago

Lemmy isn’t just for FOSS enthousiasts.

Personally I run Linux/FreeBSD on my servers but use macOS / iOS on my laptop/tablet/phone, best of both worlds.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 21 hours ago

Hi, that's me.

I love foss, but there's only so much bad UI/UX I can tolerate. Also for my phone I want it to just kinda... phone. (and have a good camera)

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

You can do a similar thing with Android's find hub thing. IIRC it will also ring even if the phone is in silent mode

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Doesn't it need to be connected to a Google account though? I feel like the same people who don't use Apple also try to steer clear of Google. I promise I'm not trying to intentionally be difficult!

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah it does. And I'm in that weird spot where I can't stand apple but still am somewhat ok with Google (mostly due to residual goodwill from their old philosophy if I'm being honest...) as long as I can mostly deprive them of my personal data

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[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

just autism, but darn this situation happens too many times ;-;

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[-] [email protected] 1 points 23 hours ago

The Tile app (you can use without buying anything) can turn on the ringer and set full volume. My partner and I use it to find each other's phones. There are probably other apps that do that, too.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 22 hours ago

Both iOS and android have this built in. There’s no need for a 3rd party app to do it.

https://www.icloud.com/find

https://myaccount.google.com/find-your-phone

[-] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago

Tut tut, achually... Android doesn't have it built in, it's bundled with the Google package. Witch is included in virtually all android phones so I know what you mean.

I use /e/os, so to me the Google package is a third party system and I use open source applications to access parts of the Google infrastructure without having to have a Google account.

The downside is that not all Google features are available. Like find my phone functions when there's no associated account. But I can text my phone with a secret codeword and it'll send back it's GPS coordinates so that's something I suppose.

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