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[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 hour ago

I have pretty severe ADHD and I fucking hate food delivery service apps. What is this post even trying to say?

[-] [email protected] 18 points 2 hours ago

What the heck is this convoluted, but incoherent post? OP must have ADHD jumping between these topics and thinking they're related

[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 hours ago

Do American towns not have town squares? My (European) town has 3, that I know of.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 minutes ago

Many(most?) older towns did have a town square, many still do in various forms. Though it's not the town square they're about; it's the medium density mixed-use housing.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 34 minutes ago

Not really, we tend to have a "main street" where all the popular businesses are lined up, but otherwise a lot of towns are pretty car-centric.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 3 hours ago

Is there an association between adhd and food delivery?

My moomer trait is I just don’t get food delivery.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

I feel like that's a millennial trait too, simply because we're all too broke to afford the markup.

[-] [email protected] 16 points 4 hours ago

Most of the delivery services here in the UK even in places with big roads use bicycles, mopeds, or at most a small hatchback car. They can easily fit through that city.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 3 hours ago

Well yes but see i don't live there and i need to keep driving my ford F50000 fleshreaper, BLOOD FOR THE CAR GOD

[-] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Oh goodness, this is reminding me of the SUV/truck hellscape most manufacturers are trying to push nowadays. Even my inner car guy hates those with a burning passion, as it killed so many cool cars.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

Everything is a big white boring box or a highway train.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

All equipped with child-killer front ends that are totally crash-incompatible with every normal car.

End the light-truck exemption.

[-] [email protected] 35 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

... they deliver food in old city centres like this al the same, they just use bikes or mopeds.

Also non-car food delivery is better, especially during rush hours.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 3 hours ago

The vehicles are also cheaper in every thinkable way.

[-] [email protected] 29 points 7 hours ago

Carbrains cant imagine how a system that yeets you across the city at 70kmph underground could exist.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago

Wtf does that even mean?

[-] [email protected] 27 points 8 hours ago

ADHD-adjacent food services

LOL

[-] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

Yeah really like wtf

[-] [email protected] 66 points 12 hours ago

"ADHD-adjacent food services" this person can fuck aaaaaalll the way off

[-] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 50 minutes ago)

The title is garbage, but ADHD folk can have a lot of problems preparing food, even ordering food.

Having an option if all else fails is a lifesaver (getting regular-ish nutrition & not starving for a couple of days at a time - not a short term issue, but the psychological effects can compound over time ... this is also the segue/mechanic why so many adhd ppl develop persistent depression).

Edit: to clarity - with delivery I just meant

Having an option if all else fails

An option some ADHD peeps can use, 100% not an option developed to help with ADHD fuckery.

I hate third-party delivery services, those are just exploiting workers & act monopolistic when it comes to fees they change to the restaurants.

I go get my own food, but it still happens that I can't leave my apparent sometimes so I assumed this does help some people.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 3 hours ago

I appreciate where you're coming from, but understand this is a very personal issue for me. I've been dealing with it for the majority of my life.

I'm not going to challenge the specific merits of food delivery. But everyone deals with their disorder in their own way. For example, I solve this issue by simply living next to a grocery store in a walkable area. It's something I've worked towards over time.

What infuriates me is someone trying to code something as "ADHD-adjacent" - and in this case, pass it off as though exploitative gig service delivery apps are some kind of accessibility measure. We are particularly susceptible to the weapons of the information age, which has engineered easy dopamine hits within the reach of our fingers at all times. They are NOT there to make our lives better. They are there to exploit, profit, and manipulate.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 54 minutes ago)

Oh, yeah, for sure, the garbage (0-sense) title is screaming monetisation of all the things for a few clicks.

I too resolved a lot of my food issues by having stores in the same building I live (and nice restaurants in the 1 to 5 minute walk where I can skip the delivery & go get it myself).

With delivery I just meant

Having an option if all else fails

An option some ADHD peeps can use, 100% not an option developed to help with ADHD fuckery.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 3 hours ago

Speaking as an adhd person:

I cannot afford to use these services.

I cannot deal with their bullshit, and, as someone with marginalized aspects of my identity, cant deal with their spyware.

I can, however, walk about a block to a 24 hour grocery store or pizza place thats open late. If i fucked up.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 49 minutes ago* (last edited 48 minutes ago)

With delivery I just meant

Having an option if all else fails

An option some ADHD peeps can use, 100% not an option developed to help with ADHD fuckery.

I hate third-party delivery services, those are just exploiting workers & act monopolistic when it comes to fees they change to the restaurants.

I go get my own food, but it still happens that I can't leave my apparent sometimes so I assumed this does help some people.

I resolved a lot of my food issues by having stores in the same building I live (and nice restaurants in the 1 to 5 minute walk where I can skip the delivery & go get it myself).

But yeah, not all days, sometimes food is complicated.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 20 minutes ago

If i cant leave my apartment, i cant let the delivery guy in.

Or i can ask a friend whos gonna be by to grab me something.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago

Nearly every single restaurant had food delivery services prior to Uber/Doordash's existence. Many still have.

I mean, there's a reason pizza delivery scooters have been a thing since the 1980's.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 45 minutes ago* (last edited 43 minutes ago)

Not only that - if they still do they usually offer lower prices. Even lower if you pick it up yourself.

Those big 3rd-party delivery services sux, they exploit workers (pay, "tips") and restaurants (fees).

Big tech 'disruptions' are just a facade to get monopoly without providing anything new.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

I feel seen

Other delivery options help or like pre-ordering pickup on apps have saved my life, but there was a span where I was living on delivery because I couldn’t shop..still kind of can’t figure out what my ‘easy’ foods can be that are also not gonna make my heart hurt.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 11 hours ago

You're lazy and can't accept that you have no self control. Stop blaming mental illness. Yes people have it. No it isnt the reason you are worthless sack of shit. That's all you.

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[-] [email protected] 53 points 14 hours ago

What the fuck does ADHD have to do with Doordash?

[-] [email protected] 10 points 9 hours ago

With ADHD, you can suddenly be depleted of energy, not have the motivation to cook, or simply forget to eat. When you get hungry you can go ," Ah whatever I'll order delivery"

NOW. It may be more prominent in ADHD folk, as myself, but it is not just an ADHD folk issue. This person is just making ADHD their entire personality, and pointing fingers at things they don't like.

Also, I'm almost positive that Madrid( is this Madrid?)has food delivery services.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 6 hours ago

food delivery services are better in car-light places, because cars (as we all know) fundamentally fucking suck shit.

[-] [email protected] 38 points 12 hours ago

Literally nothing.

Shitty people will associate ANY impulsive decision with ADHD because they get all their mental health information from short-form content.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 8 hours ago

Actually, the issue here is executive dysfunction.

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/symptoms/23224-executive-dysfunction

Regardless, going for a walk to the restaurant for lunch is a mentally healthy activity for all neurotypes.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago

Believe me, I'm very familiar with the concept. I simply despise the idea of someone categorizing food delivery apps as an ADHD-specific service.

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