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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

Bromine. It’s what they treat the water with on the Pirates of the Caribbean ride at Disneyland, and the smell puts my mind on vacation

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Chlorine and florine

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 40 minutes ago

There are literally no flaws with either of those smells

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

My grandmother's closet - old wood, old clothes, and mothballs

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

I got a brief flash of a Ren and Stimpy close-up of a nostril sucking in mothballs, from reading this comment.

But jokes aside, I can imagine that smell becoming a core memory down the road and will hit with instant nostalgia whenever you smell something similar.

I remember the smell of my Grandmother's house every time I hear the song Teardrop by Massive Attack. I'm 9 years old, and I'm watching MTV, sitting on the living room carpet.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

I love the smell of grains being unloaded from a truck into a silo.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago

The air on a crisp Halloween dusk back in 1988.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

Skunk. From a very safe distance, of course. But I love it when you can smell one, somewhere nearby.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago

Stinky dogs.

They smell like friendship

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

Stockmar crayons.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Diesel fuel is a pretty awesome smell 🔥

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

diesel exhaust

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

Oh yes that is literally always good

[–] [email protected] 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
  1. The smell in the air after a rain on a warm spring day.
  2. The smell in the air of wood smoke on a freaking cold winter day.
[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

That first one is called petrichor

[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago

Creosote on a hot summer day.
Reminds me of the amusement park when I was little. There were a lot of railroad ties used as retaining walls there.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

Napalm in the morning.

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Firewood drying in the sun appeals to me, but it's generally a quite mild smell. If there's a breeze, it probably is undetectable.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago

My girlfriend's cooking

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

There are these yellow flowers that grow on vines around here. They smell excellent.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I used to taste honeysuckles as a kid.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

core memory unlocked

[–] [email protected] 7 points 23 hours ago

Pine and fir needles.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

Fresh out of the oven bread Coffee Pipe tobacco Cigar shops

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Baking bread. The smell right after a summer shower. Books. Diesel exhaust on a cold day. Don't ask on that last one, it's weird I know, but I love it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 18 hours ago

Brand new tires

[–] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago

Chlorine on my skin after going to the pool.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I like the smell of jergins shampoo from like 30 years ago. My mom, who died when I was 23, used it when I was growing up, and I haven’t smelled it in literally decades, but I’d know it if I smelled it again, because it’s impossible to mistake for anything else, but you try really hard to figure out what the smell is. Pretty sure it died in the early 2000s (apparently it’s still available but I have no hope it smells the same, because I haven’t had a whiff in so long.. last time was on a bus around 2002)

It had a very unique… tangy? smell that wasn’t floral or fruity or musky or anything. It was just its own very specific smell. Probably all man made chemicals. But it contains volumes of memories.

Interestingly, I still don’t like her perfume (dune from like 1990-2004). I have 2 bottles of it, and I find it very unappealing. It smells like her, sure, but I don’t like it. I sniff the bottle every now and then, for memories. But they are adult memories. The jergins is childhood memories.

If anyone has a really old bottle of jergins floating around, I’d pay money for it..

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Matches (No I'm not a pyromaniac)

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Corn chip puppy smell!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

The smell a candle makes when it’s put out.

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