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I've been away long enough that I noticed this "howdy" side to the site and decided there was no better place to visit first. ralsei-wave

I've lived just about all of my life in California and have worked as an educator, along with numerous and varied proletarian jobs with varying amounts of precarity. While some seemed to have liked it there, even thrived there, I hated it there. Just being in the teachers' lounge, or for that matter existing in public, seemed to be an open invitation to be involuntarily exposed to the worst of "hustlegrind" and "startup" culture. It may have been because of the specific area I was in (if you know Mountain View to Palo Alto to maybe Sacramento, you'll get what I mean), but these intrusive interactions, where a stranger could and would (if you look passably us-foreign-policy perhaps) get propositioned to "get in on the ground floor" with some grift or another, were bleakly common. Similarly, because of the sort of painfully privileged yet socially malnourished environment, just about nothing was discussed by my fellow faculty or other people I associated with except the pop cultural monoliths of the time, which I had to absorb via cultural osmosis in the worst way. Anticipating grading papers for the next few hours didn't get any easier when "DAE LE RED WEDDING?!" and "DAE LE SHAME, SHAME?!" was all anyone around me wanted to talk about, unless they were discussing some investment or how "epic" (yes, that old stale word remained in vogue way after its expiration date) someone's new Tesla was.

soypoint-1 my-hero awooga libertarian-alert hypersus soypoint-2 debord-tired

That's why I risked everything, cashed in my retirement fund early, and with eyes forward to becoming a father and finding a better place for my family, I moved to the Atlantic northeast to start an agricultural project that I intend to expand beyond sustainability into a communal project curry-space . It's hard work, and of course it's hard work, and it's still a work in progress. For OpSec reasions I don't want to get into too many details there except to say that it's all a work in progress and it's difficult, but rewarding. touch-grass .

I like it here. I like it here quite a bit. There's funny people, weird people, even scary people here and there around me, but I haven't had a single conversation that I would qualify as "bazinga" since I arrived. I haven't seen a single ZYBERTRUKKK either, except pictures of them getting mocked on the internet. billionaire-tears . I don't know if it's just the area I now live in or if it's a larger cultural shift, but as far as I can tell there's no more pop cultural monoliths that I had to be force-fed just by being around hogs gobbling up the hog slop, being it "historically accurate" or "satirical" or whatever. morshupls

I bring that up because I have no great interest in waddling into the slop anymore, to argue about it or against it for that matter, largely because I have not had to for almost a year now, and that makes a huge difference. sweat

I still set aside time to write when I can, and my next novel project is nearing the completion of its first draft. For those curious about that, there's no mecha this time (THIS TIME cyber-lenin ), and it's a more contemporary setting with only some slight background science fiction elements. I may share more details about that in an upcoming post if there's interest.

I hope you and yours are well, comrades. avoheart

EDIT: I accidentally said "there's mecha this time" instead of "there's no mecha this time" and corrected that immediately. sicko-wistful

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thank you for your service last year, i work in tech and even though i'm not in california i interact with that segment of the industry regularly and your rants made me feel less alone as all the software got worse day over day.

i used to love tech, have always been obsessed with it, so it's been depressing watching what's happened to the industry over the past few years.

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[-] [email protected] 19 points 10 months ago

The master of timing is back!!!

[-] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago

Did my return coincide with anything cool? cool-zone

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welcome back ~~king~~ comrade

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Damn, I wrote a comment about how you moved on with your life and won't be coming back only for you to come back the very next day lol

But welcome back. I know how doing light yard work and gardening does much in mentally detoxing myself and what you're doing is far more involved than mere light yard work and gardening. But most importantly, I think it'll do a great deal of good for your kid to grow up where you are right now than the hellhole that is Silicon Valley.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago

kirby-wave

I'm new-ish here posting but have lurked forever

[-] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago

Sounds like you may have heard of me in a very long game of telephone. I hope I am at least somewhat as entertaining as my own Flanderization.

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Oh fuck, they spoke you into being. Welcome back, comrade.

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dead-motherfucker

look who finally showed up for the Debriefing

Splendid Job Sir !

[-] [email protected] 14 points 10 months ago

Not gonna say anything about murdering Killinger? Okay.

On a serious note, I'm glad you're doing well. You're living the dream for all of us.

[-] [email protected] 17 points 10 months ago

On a serious note, I'm glad you're doing well. You're living the dream for all of us.

The dream is hard work and toil and a lot of unknowns I still need to navigate... sweat

But so far it's worth it and I wouldn't have it any other way. sicko-wholesome

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 10 months ago

Welcome back! Despite the weird-ass struggle yesterday, plenty of us sincerely missed you (clearly) and are glad to see you back. There were several Ulysses-isms that I appreciated and was disappointed to find the site so lacking in after your departure. Not the least of which being the presence of a great void in the necessary criticism, painful for some though it may be, of treat-brained treats-worship.

But setting the controversial stuff aside, I think we all can agree that this site's emoji game in general is on a level beyond nearly all other spaces, but that you are a legend even among the legendary emojiists. I stand in awe of some of the great works produced here, and yours are primary among the masterpieces that come to mind.

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Anyway, congratulations on your well-lived life and your achievements (and relative freedom from bazinga conversations and pop slop monoliths!) heart-sickle

[-] [email protected] 13 points 10 months ago

Bro could've just explored more of SF and Oakland but decided to do this ๐Ÿ’€

Tradcath vibes lol

[-] [email protected] 14 points 10 months ago

Because growing food with the intent of providing food for people in need is "tradcath." galaxy-brain

Yes I know your post is covered in layers of protective irony, but I don't have to like it, and I won't.

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