Pretty much.

Honestly I'm kind of a slob and I've done alright I'm married and stuff

I need to specify here that they should be doing those things on instinct (not perfectly, just if shit is piling up be bothered enough to do something about it) without constantly being told to like I'm their mother.

Otherwise, yeah I guess that used to be my bare minimum before I learned more about myself.

As a guy almost all of my romantic success with women has come down to not being annoying. So yeah. Checks out