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[-] [email protected] 50 points 1 year ago

Be the change you want to see in the world

[-] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Are you positive enough to jump a car?

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

No, I'm afraid I'm negative

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Only fools are positive

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I'm sorry to hear that, I hope treatment is still possible

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Positive to positive, negative to ground?

[-] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago

I see some positivity. It's like reddit, you have to work to stay away from the communities that are wont to devolve into a feedback loop of negativity

[-] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

It's harder than on Reddit, though, because the population as a whole is so much smaller. There aren't alternative communities for most topics- there aren't communities at all for most topics- and you keep seeing the same small group of prolific posters so the views aren't as diverse. If you happen to align with that group's views, great, but I find it a lot easier to end up as the lone unpopular view than on Reddit.

I'm hoping this will continue to improve over time as the Fediverse grows and diversifies more.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Indeed, well said.

How is mbin development going in your opinion? I am hearing good things but I still haven't gotten around to making an account.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

I haven't been paying close attention but it seems to be doing well. I originally joined the Fediverse on kbin.social because I liked the idea of supporting an alternative to a Lemmy monoculture, especially given what I'd seen of Lemmy's devs' views, but over time it became apparent that the lone developer of kbin wasn't intending to take advantage of outside assistance and that it wasn't going to work out as a single-person project in the long run. So I'm glad mBin forked, it seems to have picked up the necessary momentum. The mBin instance I'm on has had the occasional downtime or bug but nowhere near the kind of trouble kBin routinely had.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I see some positivity. It’s like reddit, you have to work to stay away from the communities that are wont to devolve into a feedback loop of negativity

I find that browsing by 'New' instead of 'Hot' helps somewhat.

Though the responses you get to your comments on new posts still tend to be more antagonistic than friendly.

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Sure, look at my history, I'm a real sunshine here

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I got 4 comments down before reading the things about dalmatians 😢

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Aw yeah that one wasn't so uplifting, but continue scrolling there are cat pictures

[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

I tend to stick to meme subs and subs for things I like, so it's not too hard to find positivity.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

I'm having a good time 💕

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

I'm positive that someone is.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

I see lots of positivity! There's a lot of news which is mostly bad of course, but there's also memes and cats and casual chats, and fun nerdy stuff.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

There's a lot of assholes everywhere. The block button is your friend :)

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
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[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I try, but it's sometimes difficult not to get caught up in the perpetual pessimism. I've caught myself responding with more defeatism before, recognized what I was doing, and changed my response. Lemmings are generally more aware as people, so they're naturally going to be more cynical. But, we have a lot of extremists too, and then kids who see the extremist edge lord stuff, think it's cool, and parrot it on every post, regardless of relevancy. I've also had positive messages deleted by mods who don't like that they contradict their philosophy. Anyways, let's all make an effort to be more positive at least a few times per day.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Do I come off as positive 🥺

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Yeah, they're all stealing electrons. /joke

...if you want a serious answer, define "to be positive" in an objective way. Otherwise we'll all end talking about our personal experiences, that may or may not match.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Even if not, you can be!

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I find the question as phrased is ambiguous. Are you asking if there are people using Lemmy to express positive emotion in general or to express positivity about Lemmy?

I can comment generally that I do feel like positivity is often in short supply in social media spaces, and when one does encounter it, it may be of the toxic variety.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I can comment generally that I do feel like positivity is often in short supply in social media spaces, and when one does encounter it, it may be of the toxic variety.

What does the sweet turning sour tend to look like from what you've observed?

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

In general I think lack of empathy is the main problem, though I think even well-meaning people can make others feel guilty about having normal negative emotions, e.g. "You'll get through it". IMO the worst may be the one-uppers, the guy who says "That's nothing. I knew this other guy who had cancer of the kitten."

Thinking about it, I generally only share really upsetting news with friends and almost never online.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Maybe both.

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Consider your Finders Bias.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I find that the circlejerk jerks much harder on Lemmy than it does on reddit.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

You look nice today.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Actively try to be!

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Honestly. I try to use Lemmy for positive stuff as much as possible. Hobby stuff, jokes and as few political comments as possible.

I use reddit to vent frustration and bitch and moan.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Yes, I just finished the Dungeon of Lost Souls in Might and Magic V: Darkside of Xeen™. Hardly anything more positive than that.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

No, I'm in a perpetual state of uncertainty.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

This is kind of a strange question... it's like you got up on your soapbox and said nothing.

There's plenty of positivity here. In fact, unless you recently cleaned it up, your post history is filled with examples of positive comments and posts that also got positive responses.

Why did you make this post? Lol

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Hehehehehe, thank you. I try to be good.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Just don't read the pitbull threads

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I'm positively throbbing

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