I think both posts are complaining about the same thing: policing each other's behaviors and expression of sexuality.
Maybe a lot of incels/gooners bring their lack of sex on themselves by not considering others desires or experiences. Until they figure that out, they have to be removed from common spaces. The loneliness epidemic is self-inflicted (and exacerbated by patriarchal capitalism).
This is my harm reduction combo. I used to have heavy tobacco use in the mix.