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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So basically after a few years of just hanging out with women using this method my social skills had developed enough through sheer quantity of training data that I could take flight and make other friends myself, plus of course the friends I had while I was learning were real friends, and this is also coincidentally around the time women started finding me attractive in a more-than-friends way.

how old were you when this happened?

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Around 23 maybe but honestly I don't think I really got good with people until age 27 or so.