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I can't speak for other guys, but as somebody who skews younger, I find [as a former(...?) potential love interest told me] that I'm not really aware of boundaries and just go on and on about stuff I like, not particularly caring whether or not the women I'm talking to are actually interested. Most often they're annoyed.
Neurospicy moment. I'm autistic and I've definitely had to learn how to pump the brakes when I get interested on a topic
Yeah, learning to listen is really important. Read bell hooks.