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Yeah definitely. I know plenty of uggos who have great relationships too. It’s totally possible but guess especially can’t let that resentment and anger/hate build up. And have to set realistic expectations. It’s a cruel world out there. Capitalism makes it even worse in every way unfortunately.
I would say a lot of people also don’t have any self awareness, in a good way I guess. Like I’ve met people who I wouldn’t consider attractive, and they’re not exactly the most happy or confident people in the world, but they seem to be completely oblivious of their looks and just talk to just about anybody and get laid without really thinking too hard about it. It also applies to average and pretty people, but yeah. Though this usually applies to older people who never really cared about beauty. Being aware of your looks and beauty standards hampers your efforts.