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Most of the time it's Misogyny. Either their own misogyny or the misogyny of others having similar red flags to what they put out.
Either that or they just haven't met a person that gels with them.
Actually I think a huge factor these days is everyone is too tired and depressed to want to bother with a love life. I don't think people realize just how fucking done with romance most women are. It takes a lot of effort, and capitalism and the hopelessness of the future has sucked the life out of everyone (regardless of gender come to think of it).
As for my self, I'm too tired to bother with romance, and I've witnessed so many friends and family have their lives ruined by abusive relationships that I can't see myself trusting someone unless I was 100% compatible with them.