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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is this ranked like #1 is worse than #5 or is #5 worse than #1 and #1 is just the limit.

Because if #1 is considered the worst then this entire list is upside down. Other than that, idk, I haven't been on a first date in over a decade. Definitely been to these places at request of my partner when in a relationship.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My last first date lasted 3 days when she got snowed in at my bachelor pad with nothing but liquor and stale bagels to eat.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’m fascinated by this story, because it sounds like my worst nightmare. When I was single I usually couldn’t wait for a first date to end. What was the situation like on day 3? Awkward?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Not really, we just talked the whole time. She showed me a couple shows she liked and we just stayed up till like 2am every night talking about everything we could think of. The first time I met her I left a date I was on to go talk about unions so that helped.

Didn't make any moves which apparently she was confused by, but of course in my mind I was thinking "if this goes wrong there's nowhere else for either of us to go". Not like it matters anyways, we'll have been together for 6 years come December lol