The people who like these games generally don't get angry the same way you do (probably). I've died 30+ times to bosses before and felt disheartened. But the rush from the win makes it feel worth it.

Me too. Would love to play all those, but my tries were just frustrating. And it's not just difficult enemies. But that artificially inflated difficulty like all enemies reset when i fail.

There's motivation to beat a tough enemy, and then there's motivation to beat 30 enemies again for 30mins just because i made a tiny mistake.

Maybe it's a generational thing. I grew up with very difficult games, i just grew out of it. Newer generations only had these honey-drenched easypeasygames the industry came up with. There really is a hard challenge to beat anymore. Then came fromsoft and reminded me of how nasty games were 😂

The trick is learning not to be angry. It usually takes a while to beat a boss, but from then on it's suddenly easy (especially on replays), and that feels really, really good.

I felt the same way when Dark Souls (and subsequent sequels) came out. Sekiro was the first game I had ever refunded on Steam when I rage quit it after couldn’t get through the tutorial level. I’ve since tried it again and made it to Genichiro but couldn’t beat him as it doesn’t let you grind to level up. It’s truly a game where you have to “git gud” and I’m simply not that good at parrying.

Honestly the only reason I gave Bloodborne a try was because I saw someone else play who was a much worse gamer than I was, it was included on PS+, and I thought the world seemed really interesting. I absolutely do not think this genre is for everyone but when you can beat a boss, the rush is intense and addictive.