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[-] Triumph@fedia.io 148 points 1 day ago

Let me guess, their "expert" says to double down.

[-] rumba@lemmy.zip 3 points 5 hours ago

I want TV's with cameras to make sure that all people are watching the two minutes hate in the morning.

--the current administraion probably

[-] heartSagan5@lemmy.zip 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Yup, sorta “stand your ground” with that opinion so we can rule you via divide and conquer and your dependency on feeding your narrative.

[-] Burninator05@lemmy.world 14 points 15 hours ago

If my in-laws watch this show the expert must be telling people to play the victim card whenever direct communication happens and post passive aggressive memes on Facebook.

[-] Malyca@lemmy.zip 3 points 7 hours ago

That's the narcissist playbook, congrats you have narcs in your life

[-] A_norny_mousse@piefed.zip 11 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

and use any leverage you got, emotional or material. (It was both in my case)

No, seriously, I'd love to know what the "expert" said.

...

The article itself is boilerplate advice. Basic stuff: really listen, admit your own mistakes, don't get angry. Avoid labeling. What's of course more interesting is why adult children choose to cut ties with their FOX-infested parents. And that article is extremely problematic.

[-] rainwall@piefed.social 7 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

They quoted the same Texas psychologist for both, and lordy does he come off as much more of a far right loon in the latter.

For context, he blames "victim culture," "gender ideology," "therapy" and "tiktok" for estrangement. Pretty clear to see where his biases lie.

[-] BillCheddar@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

All of his arguments boil down to "Keep your kids from finding support and you can keep them on your Boomer Plantation forever!"

[-] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 2 points 5 hours ago

"Therapy is so bad for the children! It's turning them against their abusive parents by allowing them to start the process of healing, after which they begin to realize that healing will always be limited to a cycle of progression and regression until they cut out the toxic people who repeatedly sabotage their growth every time they start to show improvement. I'm so tired of this victim culture where the children of abusive parents act like they're the victims! Why can't they just take responsibility for their own decisions, such as being born to a particular family, or being neglected and constantly put down by the very people who are supposed to be a source of safety and stability in their lives? When I was their age everyone in the neighborhood's dads were all war veterans with PTSD who would beat the shit out of us and send us to the store to buy milk and cigarettes. We all turned out fine! Now get off my lawn."

[-] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 109 points 1 day ago

In many cases, parent-child estrangements are a cycle — "they'll re-engage, then they'll fall out again," Blake said. "One of the key things from the research is that adult children will reach out and if they see nothing has changed, they'll estrange again."

No, I actually think it's a pretty good article, and comes surprisingly close to outright saying the parents are the problem

[-] Signtist@bookwyr.me 37 points 23 hours ago

In my experience, even when I've framed it as "something needs to change" to try to be less direct in saying that they need to change, they still just say "correct, you do need to change." Hopefully some people will get it, though.

[-] LostCarcosan@lemmy.today 4 points 7 hours ago

A few years ago, my dad was upset about how "you can't say man or woman anymore. How are you gonna call the cops on someone robbing you? Say 'It was a person average height!' Or they'll arrest you for using the word man!"

I just asked if he was fucking stupid and does that sound like something that would even remotely happen, then said I was leaving if that's how he thinks and left. Ignored any attempts at contact until he apologized and admitted he might be a little incorrect, which was progress enough to start.

[-] criss_cross@lemmy.world 29 points 23 hours ago

Lmao that’s the hardest thing is realizing that there’s no magic words that will ever pierce their skull. They keep acting like you speak a foreign language because it’s easier to fake “not getting it” rather than come out and say the truth which is “I don’t value you enough to change my behavior”.

Once I gave up and quit my life got a lot easier.

[-] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 2 points 15 hours ago

Do they ever hit you with this one?

"Take responsibility for your actions/decisions!" While ignoring their own responsibility in it...

[-] superglue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

And ignoring the fact that they worship a man who is famous for never taking responsibility for anything, and that is exactly part if the problem in the first place.

[-] omega_x3@lemmy.world -5 points 16 hours ago

I stopped reading as soon as I saw the double length hyphen which means it is almost definitely AI slop.

[-] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 5 points 6 hours ago

Do you not read books or something? These dashes have been in almost every novel I've ever read. They're a pretty common linguistic convention if you spend any time consuming media that isn't written in dumbed down internet lingo.

[-] frostysauce@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

Lots of comic book letters used to (probably still do) use -- to separate a little aside from the main thought. After using that for 30 years I learned it was an em-dash.

[-] AngryRedHerring@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago

Dude. I learned to use a double dash for effect back in 1986 and I have used the hell out of that fucker ever since. Stop pretending that there's one magical symbol that determines 100% that something was written by AI.

[-] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

Oh ok. So you're a moron. I understand.

[-] twack@lemmy.world 9 points 16 hours ago

This isn't as universally true as a lot of people seem to think. I'm not defending this particular article, as I haven't even read it yet. However MS Word has been auto updating a dash to an em dash for years. Where do you think AI got it from in the first place?

It can be a marker for text that is written in places where plain text is preserved. In a written article that most likely started as a word document? Not always the case.

[-] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

It's a punctuation mark. It's used to connect two related but separate thoughts. People can use it just like ai does.

[-] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 1 points 6 hours ago

AI only learned to use it because it's a pretty common thing for people to use...

[-] ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago

I had never even heard of an em-dash until I started reading comments about AI using them. I had always just used a hyphen in the same way. Since I like to think of myself as an educated writer, I started using them. Now people think I'm AI lol.

{{tell amusing story about being mistaken for AI}}

[-] AngryRedHerring@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

I never even heard it called an em dash until it came up in these AI discussions, it was always a double dash as I knew it.

[-] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 hours ago

No that's Mario Kart for the gamecube.

[-] AngryRedHerring@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

This may cause you to blanch with horror, but there was no Mario Kart in 1986.

And we only ate what we hunted and we rode dinosaurs

[-] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 hours ago

Consider me blanched.

[-] ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

There's only one double dash in my universe!

[-] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 6 points 16 hours ago

AI learned that from training data, which means it was used by humans writing this kind of text. At least that was true before AI started feeding on itself.

[-] cmbabul@slrpnk.net 75 points 1 day ago

I wouldn’t be shocked if they said to kidnap said adult children and send them to reeducation camps brought to you by PragerU

[-] FedX@quokk.au 20 points 1 day ago

Even better, it was "hostage negotiation tactics."

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