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It's not about what they can see. I've had bloodwork done, and I've seen the lab results for myself since I requested to have them printed. I'm no longer going to pursue this because at this point it'll be like I'm a hypochondriac unhealthily obsessed with her health. I've got other things to do in my life. I just need to get on with it and cope with it.
Surely you must understand that the most basic blood tests can't find everything that can be wrong. There are thousands of tests
Off the top of my head, without getting my magazine-thickness stack of lab result papers I had them print out, I've had TSH, hb1ac, potassium, sodium, urea, LH, FSH, prolactin, DHEA, testosterone, androgens, b12, folate, ferritin, full blood count, full white cell count, IgA, calcium, estrogen, ca-125, cholesterol, etc tested.
My white cells have been low since the testing began, but I was told this is normal because as you age your immune system declines.
The standard lab ranges are defined by “at least some people don’t show symptoms of deficiencies or issues or etc at these levels,” not “everyone is guaranteed to be fine in these ranges.” I was “in range” with B12 until I started developing nerve damage from a deficiency of it, with years of symptoms leading up to it that were ignored because I was “in range.” I was “in range” with folate, because the standard lab tests inactive folic acid and not active folate. I was “in range” with ferritin, and yet had significant improvement from taking more iron. I was “in range” with potassium and then ended up in the ER multiple times from hypokalaemia so bad that I could barely move.
You get the idea. “In range” is not the same as “will get no benefit from supplementing it,” but it’s the kind of thing that ideally is done with proper medical assistance if you think you’re deficient in things.
If you're a hypochondriac, it's because you're inventing these symptoms. If you actually have them, it's an actual problem.
Hypochondria can also include having normal symptoms but making them out to be more of a big deal than what they really are. For example, there's lots of men who will call a cold "man flu". That's a form of hypochondria since most people get colds but deal with them.
There's more recent evidence that men's immune systems can be more deeply impacted by flu viruses, causing aches and pains all over their bodies that women don't usually experience.
Its more than that. Women have a significantly better immune system, and I'm jealous up until the massively increased likelihood of autoimmune disease. Almost all autoimmune diseases occur in women. OP should really look into autoimmune issues.
I know a 20yo woman who has advanced MS with similar symptoms to what she has.
That's gonna eat into your mental health in the long term. Better be careful!
I'll be strong.