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submitted 1 day ago by Angel@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

I got hired by this place, and my training with them starts on Monday. It's also remote, so hopefully, nothing weird about "load tests" steps into the room. I don't think it will. I already completed my onboarding with them, and the training will last a month. It is a full-time position and actually long-term. I love that I don't have to leave my home to do the work, so it sounds like a win.

In addition to all of this, I am looking into narrating audiobooks as a side hustle of sorts. Unfortunately, because of AI, I wonder how long this will even be an option. Either way, I'm gonna navigate finding some side hustle.

However, I got some anxiety when I read these policies on having a "professional appearance" for video conferences [slightly paraphrased]:

  • Hair must be clean and well-groomed in a reasonable style.
  • No hats or head-coverings that impede a clear view of your face. Scarves and hair-wraps are fine so long as they do not violate another policy (obscene patterns, etc.)

Because I have freeform dreadlocks, I probably don't fit this "well-groomed" or "reasonable style" description they're talking about. After reading this, I actually decided to wear a (solid black) Rastacap during the interview, and they took no issue with it, so I take it that the Rastacap is not invalidated by the second bullet point there. I guess one could call it a "hair-wrap." Regardless, it is such a goofy, performative, and LARPy thing for them to have these stringent guidelines on one's appearance in video calls for a job where you're not actually even seeing customers, just talking to them on the phone.

Either way, if they do try to go after me for either the Rastacap or the freeform dreadlocks, that can be a violation of anti-discrimination laws, I'm sure. Though I'm not actually a Rasta, I thought it might be in my favor to cap (pun definitely intended) and tell them that I am so they get off my ass for the sake of avoiding religious discrimination. I don't think it will actually get to that point, though, or at least I hope it doesn't.

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[-] Angel@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah, you got it right about the "anglo hair" part. What is considered "neat hair" to most people is really not something applicable to my hair because, especially in the West, the term "neat hair" has a very Eurocentric connotation. I have type 4C hair and my dreadlocks were formed through what many would call "neglect," but it was a very intentional, lengthy process. Freeform dreadlocks, as a hairstyle, entail literally no manipulation (unless you count me washing my hair every 5 days, but there is no brushing, combing, etc.), so, throughout the whole day, my hair will still functionally look the same way it does when I first get out of bed. I also use satin pillows and bedsheets for this reason. The rastacap is ultimately the best idea with all of this in mind. Judging by their policies, they have no reason to be against it, so I should be good!

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