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Were judged by are actions and what we did in life. Dieing does not make you a better person.

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[-] DupaCycki@lemmy.world 13 points 21 hours ago

Who even came up with this 'don't speak ill of the dead' bullshit? If someone was an awful person, then they were an awful person and everybody should criticize them for it if they want to.

What does them being dead change? The family will be sad? Well boo hoo, should have cut ties with the fucker when he was sentencing innocent children to death. Pretty sure their families are even sadder.

[-] njm1314@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

I've always heard it as don't speak all of the dead at the funeral. Or wake or what have you I guess. Certainly it's never been forever.

[-] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 8 points 20 hours ago

It’s because when you’re dead you can’t defend yourself.

But mostly it’s to protect the feelings of the living.

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 5 points 20 hours ago

I think it works on a small scale when people who knew the asshole are still mourning, but breaks down when we're talking about public figures who affect policy.

Also if they were demonstrably an enemy to human decency imo

[-] Thebeardedsinglemalt@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

Many years ago my parents had a neighbor. He was a nice guy but annoying as all hell at times, so much so that my mom purposely avoided him at the pool. If she saw him she'd go out of her way to walk around to the side of the pool and be sure to not get in the water when he was in there. She spent months not being able to say 1 remotely decent thing about him.

Then he died unexpectedly of a heart attack. And suddenly he was the nicest person she knew, always so friendly and loved chatting with him, etc etc. I straight up called her out on it.

Nobody cares about the living. We make up for it by fucking their corpses into paste.

[-] Wren@lemmy.today 1 points 17 hours ago

That's one way to show respect.

[-] BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

From my understanding, it's more of a tradition, or a rule of thumb, than a capital offense.

Kind of a way of saying well: that's that.

I don't think you're supposed to white wash assholes, just don't marinate in it now that it's less important.

Of course, you don't denigrate yourself or others for the dead, but carrying their water would be real dumb too.

this post was submitted on 12 Jul 2026
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