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it feels like i’m adding a wound that could never be healed if i said “hey fyi i want to explore other people but i wont out of concern for your feelings,” like i feel that’s insanely unfair to them and would just have them worried about me cheating all the time. if i genuinely come to terms with reality and accept it, why introduce something that would cause pain? for honesty’s sake, i guess, and i have guilt over that too, but it really does seem like it would either be bad or they might pretend to be ok with it to make me happy, which would be worse
That makes sense, idk maybe I'm was selfish with it.
no it’s definitely valid, like i’m definitely holding a lie of omission and that’s its own danger. nobody’s selfish, we’re all trying to maximize happiness between ourselves and our partners. in your instance it sounds like there were a lot of other factors involved, and i’m sorry it didn’t work out