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[–] 17 points 4 months ago (5 children)

In one of my dreams last night I met a younger version of my mom in the past while I was wearing a dress. She was a restaurant hostess standing at one of their podiums/desks in front of a bunch of kids trying to get their tables settled. When she saw me she said I was beautiful and was only going to get more beautiful. I started crying and told her that her in the future didn't seem to feel that way, but she didn't seem to understand.

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  • [–] 4 points 4 months ago (4 children)

    This is a sign from the universe

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago (3 children)

    Of what, do you think? That she'll be more accepting this time around? It did get me to push up my plans to tell her (again) to next weekend if I can swing it. I had another dream last night where she came with me to a doctor's appointment and was really pushy about stuff

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    That she'll be more accepting this time around?

    That was the joke but I would advise against thinking like this. What it's really a sign of is your inner psychological needs.

    It did get me to push up my plans to tell her (again) to next weekend if I can swing it.

    Your plan on telling people should focus first and foremost on your personal safety. I would advise against following your dreams (when they are literally dreams). But if you think you are ready to face rejection, that's your choice.

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  • [–] 4 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    I know. I'm not dependent on her like I was before, and I know she felt the bra I had on last time we hugged so it shouldn't be as much of a shock this time.

    I just need to make clear this is who I am and there's nothing she can do or say to change that. If she can't handle it then that's her problem—I'll be here when she's ready to have a relationship with her daughter.

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