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Also my coworker gendered me correctly and it melted my heart. It was wonderful. He was talking about meeting me the first time (we had spoken briefly right after I got hired) and said he was internally like "woah she's tall" and it didn't make me dysphoric??? Like, being gendered correctly right out the gate somehow made all that dysphoria just... Not get activated???? Its still there but like... Him saying that didn't make me feel terrible... It was really nice.