Showed off my jacket to my friend (I wasn't wearing it, I just picked it up and showed). He told me "I don't know if you realise it has some features considered feminine in germany".
My dude you know I'm on E do you genuinely think this was an accident???
Bright side: I trust his fashion sense and he didn't tell me it looked dumb so that's a win.
(He hasn't changed how he treats me so I'm fine with him being kinda dumb about this stuff)