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Welcome to c/disabled, an anticapitalist community for disabled people/people with disability(s).
What is disability justice? Disability justice is a framework of activism which centers disabled people of multiple intersections. Before participating in in this community, please read the Ten Principles of Disability Justice.
Do I count as disabled/a person with disability(s)? "Disability" is an umbrella term which encompasses physical disabilities, emotional/psychiatric disabilities, neurodivergence, intellectual/developmental disabilities, sensory disabilities, invisible disabilities, and more. You do not have to have an official diagnosis to consider yourself disabled.
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- This comm is open to everyone. However, the megathread is only open to people who self-identify as disabled/a person with disability(s). We center the experiences of disabled people here, and if you are abled we ask that you please respect that.
- Follow the principles of disability justice, as outlined in the link above.
- Zero tolerance for ableism. That includes lateral ableism. Ableism will result in a ban.
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- Try to avoid using ableist language. It is always good to be mindful of the way language has been used to oppress and harm people.
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As of December 2025, there is a Matrix Chat Room that adheres to the same rules as the community. If you want to join, it is an invite only server. Just knock to join. Should you have trouble with the link, you can contact the mods for help: https://matrix.to/#/#Hexbear_Disabled_and_ND:matrix.org

I finally got an appointment for a consultation with the podiatrist to try and get back on the list for further surgery (as the problem is getting worse and more painful). They made me an appointment for the 9th April but now they have cancelled that and pushed it back to 29th April. Then if they put me back on the list I might have to wait months for the surgery. it's already getting painful to wear shoes again.
And people are still teasing me over mutual aid! I spoke on lemmy about the person who spent two months teasing me and someone in that thread offered assistance. I messaged to accept, and never heard back again even though he's been posting on there every day. Why are people like this?
And my landlady's daughter and grandkids are coming to visit in about 2 weeks, which is awful. They take over the whole house, the daughter is bossy, rude and unkind and she douses herself in so much perfume I get non-stop migraines.
Just when things start looking up a bit, you get this type of treatment again. It's just not fair, you deserve better
Thank you.