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I feel relieved now.
I'll just cut my ties with family after paying off my student debt.
Still a few years away from that.
But glad to know that the hatred I held in my heart for my parents since I was 14 wasn't just an edgy phase, it was fully justified. (Well ok dad is still remaining).
I shouldn't be crying. I should focus my time on enjoying being alone. Many benefits to it.
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hugs back
Thanks. I'll stop crying now.
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It sounds like they let you down in just about every way they could. I'm so sorry for how they've treated you. There's a lot that can be said about found family, but processing things however feels best is what matters now.I've been there with former family too, so like JBB said you're not alone.
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What you did was hard and fraught. I've been putting coming out to my folks for because I expect a similar reaction. You're not alone.spoiler
Hope your folks can beat the odds. Makes such a big difference.