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Unlike the material world where we only have one life, on the internet you can live many lives quite easily, try out multiple paths, until one of them sticks.

When we run into issues, do we resolve them or do we merely replace them?

Are we educating people to think better or are they being taught to follow instructions?

Like let's use me as an example. I struggle with a lot of things and I would like assistance, but that means it would be better if I act the way you like, so that I become popular and have a better chance at securing aid.

If I see a post that has lots of upvotes and I think differently, that discourages me from speaking my mind, it means if I ever run into big trouble, people are less to help me.

And as we all know everyone is precarious worker under Capitalism, that means even if I'm independent now and don't need your help, what about next year? I can act tough now, but say I have a medical emergency happen in the future and I'm known to be a critic, what's going to happen?

At least what I think would happen is people would put on their smug face and say: FOFO

That's something often neglected by the Imperial Core IMO. Cultural assimilation is taken for granted and is seen as willing participation, how many of us are just clowns trying to entertain you for scraps?

I suppose we'll never find out, until our ties are severed and we become sovereign, only then our true selves can really exist.

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[-] Valarie@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 12 hours ago

I dont think that the anonymity or the not being tied down are really that bad

The getting to try on a new face online with no judgement or ties to my in person life have if anything led me into becoming the person I am today

If I hadn't made a new set of accounts when I started thinking I could be trans I wouldn't have survived this long because I would have kept all that dysphoria bottled up until my life would have ended far before the point I am at now

If i hadn't been able to make new accounts for asking political questions about things I didnt want people to know I was questioning I wouldn't have been able to form the views I have today because I would have stayed stuck in the free market capitalist bubble I was in for most of my life.

The anonymity allows for new connections and growth just as much if not more than the amount of issues it caused and at least in my opinion showcases the kindness of people because even with that non personal connection my life has been saved several times by people whose names I will never know and faces I will never see just like they won't ever see my face and most won't know my name

[-] Valarie@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 12 hours ago

Sorry I'd that didn't make much sense, it got into an emotional topic and I am not good with staying composed or structuring things while emotional

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