I dont think cars should connect to the Internet if you don't want them to so live commands shouldn't be an issue but if you are talking about programming preset commands in having the apps be open source would fix that for the most part by adding that auditing layer
I still use mint for my daily driver office laptop because I works well right out of the box but you still have the level of software fuckary that let's it be fun to mess with
You missed ridge wallet
Sorry I'd that didn't make much sense, it got into an emotional topic and I am not good with staying composed or structuring things while emotional
I dont think that the anonymity or the not being tied down are really that bad
The getting to try on a new face online with no judgement or ties to my in person life have if anything led me into becoming the person I am today
If I hadn't made a new set of accounts when I started thinking I could be trans I wouldn't have survived this long because I would have kept all that dysphoria bottled up until my life would have ended far before the point I am at now
If i hadn't been able to make new accounts for asking political questions about things I didnt want people to know I was questioning I wouldn't have been able to form the views I have today because I would have stayed stuck in the free market capitalist bubble I was in for most of my life.
The anonymity allows for new connections and growth just as much if not more than the amount of issues it caused and at least in my opinion showcases the kindness of people because even with that non personal connection my life has been saved several times by people whose names I will never know and faces I will never see just like they won't ever see my face and most won't know my name
That is fair but some emissions control software and such is run through the same computer, I agree on the tactile sensation but I wouldn't want to tie critical car functions into a smartphone so you would still need a computer and if you are gonna put a computer in at least some functionality based on spare processing power makes sense
Dont just look at generally best, try and find one with a good orthopedic department because that is what you are gonna actually need for long term treatment
I dont remember because I went straight from boring teen to would be interested but is in an industry where every job in it has random drug testing
Either that or ban obfuscated hardware 9r software in vehicles and require the infotainment section to be modular so that people can change out pieces and upgrade hardware as they want
And do the same thing for all electronics
This is why there aren't many women on there btw 
Lidocane patches or gel are always good,
Muscle spasms a tense unit could maybe help with
I am not a person who has delt with that kind of issue but I know some basic stuff
You can get strong lidocane patches and some other meds, if you could get it it is possible to buy numbing meds that can be injected into the affected area for stronger temporary relief but I dont know your comfort level with diy-ing light medical procedures
In nc either Baptist or preferably atrium would be where to take them but idk anything about Virginia hospitals
They aren't bug free but that is the same as closed source and requiring open source would prevent malicious actors from doing as much while also letting anyone who wanted to pentest and granularly access the code have complete access and find as many if not more weaknesses than a dedicated corporate bug hunting team