chapotraphouse

Like all discourse there's yappers who are sometimes a little too extra, but obviously in the case of a teenager (who just graduated highschool) and someone who is in their late twenties (brain fully developed for years now) there is a major gap in terms of maturity and understanding.

Now obviously things are malleable and I'm not saying get the pitchforks out for a gap of 22 and 26 necessarily, but it's fairly well established that brains aren't fully developed until about the mid 20s, so I think we should consider that carefully when discussing.

And if you are dating around the legal age (18, 19, 20) and you aren't also like college age at most, imo that always screams "I would go lower but the law won't let me".

Once someone is in their mid to late 20s, there's definitely still the possibility of power dynamics at play with someone significantly older for money, connections, or experience reasons, but I think at that point you are basically universally considered a fully matured adult and probably have the wits to go around and do whatever you like.

"How can you tell maturity from age".

I said it above with the brain development but, but I think that's crazy to just leave that out there with no conditionals. Like it's universally accepted that a 5 y/o is less mature and less equipped to understand shit than a 10 y/o and so on and so forth. Like again obviously it's a spectrum a bit, but peoples brains are literally not finished developed until they are years into adult hood and they (mostly young women) regularly get taken advantage of by older people who know how to take advantage of younger people.

There's like a million cases of 18 - early twenties women who spend years with an older partner building a life and then grow into realizing that they were taken advantage of and manipulated.