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LOL @ the comments. You do you, OP. I think the egg-jacketing people do is a bit counterproductive. I know trans men who still like to present as high femme for fun. And of course, gay cis men have a lot more leeway with gender presentation than straight-presenting men. so when people are sure that a dude is an egg, it can actually promote gender essentialism.
Just remember: it doesn't make you less of a man if you want to take estrogen for funsies ;)
I think there's really two sides to the "egg" culture. On the one hand, the culture can sometimes lead to essentializing certain gender presentations as belonging to one gender or another, which is decidedly a bad thing; on the other hand, the egg culture must be seen in context as a form of inverting the way cis people treat trans people, which cis allies knowing their privilege must be able to weather.
Ultimately, though, for me calling someone an egg has really nothing to do with the gender presentation itself so much as how the person in question relates to it.
For me it’s more the act of purposefully going on the internet and making a post about it.
A guy dressing kind of fem or andro and getting mistaken for a girl or something isn’t necessarily gonna give me egg vibes, but if you go on the internet and make a post like “omg isn’t it soo weird how this happened.” I am
I think I entertained a few dozen people here, and the post had it's intended purpose.
Yeah, that's really what I was trying to get at.
I appreciate it. I made this post with the expectation that I'd be dunked on a bit. If people are enjoying themselves, that's cool. Thankfully I've reached the stage of my life that it doesn't bother me what people think about my gender. God forbid these convos happened when I was 14.
If anyone is dunking on you for this post or being anything other then infinitely supportive of your gender journey they should not only be banned from Hexbear but also the earth