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Honestly it's fine. I appreciate the advice. I just feel that I'm middle aged and have had a lot if time to think over if I feel like I'm a woman. I don't feel especially drawn to being a woman, although being male is very ehh honestly.
Being the ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ gender is a valid choice. You know who you are, and that's cool. And if who you are changes, that's cool. You are still you, and people who love you will support you.
A lot of people don't know this but building a custom gender is real cheap and easy. I did it in my back yard with some old wooden pallets.