Microblog Memes

I do think you're pissin in the wind, though.

You may be right, but hope has gotten me much farther than defeatism has. And I've never been clinging so desperately to hope as now, when the US is being governed by such abominable lickspittles. (I confess that my previous comment about creativity in insults caused me to be a bit extra here).

Besides, I've had plenty of times when I've been foolish and saying things that I didn't realise were harmful. Humans are incredibly easily swayed by group norms, and this is often for the worse. However, I've found that there can be a huge impact from people saying "hey, not cool". I don't have to be someone who changes any minds, just someone who can feel like they tried, regardless of if the tides change in the direction I'm pushing.

Plus, you'd actually be surprised at how many times I've had productive conversations on Lemmy from engaging earnestly with someone being aggressive. One of the reasons I like hanging out here is that I feel much more like I'm talking to people, in part because of how much more I see people apologising or being mature in dicey conversations. I certainly wouldn't say that I have good results every time, but it's often enough that it's a key part of what I enjoy on this platform. Especially because I have enjoyed this wee conversation that you and I have had, independent of the person I was originally speaking to — you also count as one of the 'surprisingly pleasant" interactions that spring forth from challenging someone (especially as your first comment made me expect you to be far more adversarial than you have been).

Small wins, but I'll take them