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My short Comrades do you feel dating is as hard for you as some incel types make it out to be? (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 month ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Some of these guys make it seem like they have no prospects because they're like 5'7 or whatever .

Do you actually feel this way?

Honestly myself im 6'1 and my 5'8 pal gets way more attention from women than me.

Of course thats anecdotal, but.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

i'm not shaming straight men for having body insecurities, i'm specifically talking about the kind of people who treat others (usually straight men against women) having any sort of personal preference as a personal attack or character flaw on their part. like, we all have things that we find attractive or not and it's not something we just decide on.

i see people in this very thread saying that people who care about height are bad should be avoided anyway. like wtf? as if you all don't have your own concept of what's attractive that not everyone can adhere to?